I am having some trouble with taking the next step with one particular girl. Here's the situation: hooked up with her at a bar, went out for drinks a few weeks later and hooked up again, and the other day she came over and we hooked up (i think u say made out in america) more. I was hoping for more when she came over, but it was a strange situation - she was into the kissing but wasn't initiating much touching/stroking, sort of just lying there. With other girls I've been with there's no doubt as to where the kissing is leading but with this one there is more resistance it seems. Is this a situation where I need to take a risk and initiate the next move, and if so how should i play it?