I'm in dire straits here! I can't keep a girl interested after D1 and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I think it may help to give you some background:
I'm 29, since college I have known how to get a phone number. Out of the 150 (throwing out a number) phone numbers I have received from randoms, I have F-closed about 0 of them; but can usually get at least a D1 and maybe a D2 out of them. In fact I have only slept with co-workers or friends of friends. I'm no guru, but I have read the blogs and the books behind the theories for the past couple years.
Ther girls i'm into are busy students and professionals in the ages of 22 - 29 so making them attracted and keeping them that way would inherently seem difficult.
I have K-closed many girls after a D1. I would push the Kino and they would respond according to their comfort level, etc. Lately, i have gotten the hang of Kino escalation, body language, eye contact, k-closing, etc but taking it to the D2/D3/F-close seems to be the biggest hurdle in this game to me.
I know how "to" do certain PUA things well, but I have a feeling I need a list of things "Not to" do. I have a feeling that i'm coming off needy / don't demonstrate the "willingness to walk away". In fact, in so many words, girls have told me this.
My phone/text game probably comes off needy because I like to be effecient about things; but i know this is not how women operate.
I feel that i need some expert advice in the form of a redneck joke "You might be a redneck if. . . . . " but instead, "you might be coming off too needy if. . . . ".
Either way, I really do grasp the concept of "willingness to walk away" but fail at executing at demonstrating it. For instance, these questions still plauge me:
How long to wait before you call after a D1 for a D2?
how do you phrase your request for a D2?
What are some good things to text for DHV?
How long do you wait between texts?
Should your texts always be shorter than hers?
What are some common sayings/texts i should avoid?
How flirty/sexual can I get in the texts? should I?
Is there ever "too much kino" in situations, even if she is responding? (there maybe a chance i have lost the girl even before the date is over?).
What usually happens is I'll get a number on friday, call or text on Sunday. If no response, try call/text on Tuesday. If I do get a D1 out of them, i'll thank them for a good time but be vague as to when I'll contact them next. Then i'll contact them 2 days later with a call/text. . .
As you can see, i'm all over the place because i'm having trouble distinguishing which variable of my game is off. I'm not holding their interest and I need to stop being a needy bastard .