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    AwesomeAntics is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I'm a needy AFC and I just can't help myself!! . . . therefore i need a professional!

    Guys,

    I'm in dire straits here! I can't keep a girl interested after D1 and I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

    I think it may help to give you some background:

    I'm 29, since college I have known how to get a phone number. Out of the 150 (throwing out a number) phone numbers I have received from randoms, I have F-closed about 0 of them; but can usually get at least a D1 and maybe a D2 out of them. In fact I have only slept with co-workers or friends of friends. I'm no guru, but I have read the blogs and the books behind the theories for the past couple years.

    Ther girls i'm into are busy students and professionals in the ages of 22 - 29 so making them attracted and keeping them that way would inherently seem difficult.

    I have K-closed many girls after a D1. I would push the Kino and they would respond according to their comfort level, etc. Lately, i have gotten the hang of Kino escalation, body language, eye contact, k-closing, etc but taking it to the D2/D3/F-close seems to be the biggest hurdle in this game to me.

    I know how "to" do certain PUA things well, but I have a feeling I need a list of things "Not to" do. I have a feeling that i'm coming off needy / don't demonstrate the "willingness to walk away". In fact, in so many words, girls have told me this.

    My phone/text game probably comes off needy because I like to be effecient about things; but i know this is not how women operate.

    I feel that i need some expert advice in the form of a redneck joke "You might be a redneck if. . . . . " but instead, "you might be coming off too needy if. . . . ".

    Either way, I really do grasp the concept of "willingness to walk away" but fail at executing at demonstrating it. For instance, these questions still plauge me:

    How long to wait before you call after a D1 for a D2?
    how do you phrase your request for a D2?
    What are some good things to text for DHV?
    How long do you wait between texts?
    Should your texts always be shorter than hers?
    What are some common sayings/texts i should avoid?
    How flirty/sexual can I get in the texts? should I?
    Is there ever "too much kino" in situations, even if she is responding? (there maybe a chance i have lost the girl even before the date is over?).

    What usually happens is I'll get a number on friday, call or text on Sunday. If no response, try call/text on Tuesday. If I do get a D1 out of them, i'll thank them for a good time but be vague as to when I'll contact them next. Then i'll contact them 2 days later with a call/text. . .

    As you can see, i'm all over the place because i'm having trouble distinguishing which variable of my game is off. I'm not holding their interest and I need to stop being a needy bastard .

    Thanks

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    Default Re: I'm a needy AFC and I just can't help myself!! . . . therefore i need a professio

    You know I offer personal coaching right?

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    Default Re: I'm a needy AFC and I just can't help myself!! . . . therefore i need a professio

    I did not. How do I tap these resources?


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