New to the forum and looking for advice. Im 21 and not the best with females. Been very shy for good portion of my life. Last semester i opened up more. Just being able to socialize withg girls more and now have a bunch of friends who are girls. I am still working on buiiding attraction because i tend to be a "nice guy" and im working on not jumping into that category.. Anyways this summer, in june i went to a friends dinner. There was a girl there who i thought was cute. she came over and introduced herself. we spoke briefly. I told my friend i thought she as cute and he told her, and she said the same about me. I added her on fb, we messaged a few times. Then stopped talking. About 2 weeks ago, she messaged me while she was on vacation. We spoke about our summer and i mentioned we should get ice cream when she gets back. She said yes and seemed to like the idea... I got her number and txt her when she got home. We txt back and forth a few times. She takes FOREVER to respond. I mean a day in some cases. A mutual friend says shes awful with texting. She just either forgets or responds weeks later. Last txt i sent her was about her trip. Never responded.
So yesterday ( a day since i spoke to her) i txt her for ice-cream at night. She responds several hours later in the early AM answering my txt from 2 days ago and then says if she was not sleeping, it would have been a yes to ice cream. she had a horrible headache. I responded this morning and said Sorry to hear that. maybe another time. hope u r feeling better.. no response. doubt i will get one. maybe in a few weeks lol
My question is, do i even bother trying to ask her again to meet up? I go away to school soon so if anything this is just an experience. But how do i know if she really was not feeling well. I know i wont but if she really wanted to go wouldnt she have said lets go this weekend or something??? Any advice? Thanks!