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    Baseballkid28 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Asked her to ice-cream, responded hours later, she was sleeping, excuse?

    Hey everyone
    New to the forum and looking for advice. Im 21 and not the best with females. Been very shy for good portion of my life. Last semester i opened up more. Just being able to socialize withg girls more and now have a bunch of friends who are girls. I am still working on buiiding attraction because i tend to be a "nice guy" and im working on not jumping into that category.. Anyways this summer, in june i went to a friends dinner. There was a girl there who i thought was cute. she came over and introduced herself. we spoke briefly. I told my friend i thought she as cute and he told her, and she said the same about me. I added her on fb, we messaged a few times. Then stopped talking. About 2 weeks ago, she messaged me while she was on vacation. We spoke about our summer and i mentioned we should get ice cream when she gets back. She said yes and seemed to like the idea... I got her number and txt her when she got home. We txt back and forth a few times. She takes FOREVER to respond. I mean a day in some cases. A mutual friend says shes awful with texting. She just either forgets or responds weeks later. Last txt i sent her was about her trip. Never responded.

    So yesterday ( a day since i spoke to her) i txt her for ice-cream at night. She responds several hours later in the early AM answering my txt from 2 days ago and then says if she was not sleeping, it would have been a yes to ice cream. she had a horrible headache. I responded this morning and said Sorry to hear that. maybe another time. hope u r feeling better.. no response. doubt i will get one. maybe in a few weeks lol

    My question is, do i even bother trying to ask her again to meet up? I go away to school soon so if anything this is just an experience. But how do i know if she really was not feeling well. I know i wont but if she really wanted to go wouldnt she have said lets go this weekend or something??? Any advice? Thanks!

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    Brandon "Batman" Greene is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Asked her to ice-cream, responded hours later, she was sleeping, excuse?

    Dude... Dude... Dude!!!

    I don't even know where to begin.

    Never have a friend do anything for you, do it for yourself. Having him tell her you think so and so about her, construes you being too weak to do it yourself. Women aren't attracted to wussies.

    Never respond immediately to texts. It makes you look like you have no life. Purposely wait 10 minutes if you have to. Look at what she did to you by putting time in between it. I bet when you got a text from her, you LIT UP!... If you put time in between it, girls will feel that way when you finally respond to them! (get it?) And if it was really a problem to you, fucking call her bro. lol

    Never say sorry.... For anything. Is it your fault she has a headache? No. I would have seized that opportunity to drop a heavy cocky/funny line on her, like- "That's too bad, cuz I hear icecream cures even the worst headaches." She knows it's BS and you know it's BS.... But guess what? It'll make her SMILE. And then you don't come off as a wuss that is seeking her approval.

    Or tell her you put in a request for a ALEVE flavored icecream.

    "Maybe another time"/// LMAO... Another thing I'd never say. I'd tell her that she's just about to blow her chances with me.

    But honestly, once someone makes a judgement about your character, it's hard, and almost impossible to overcome. That's why it's so important to do everything right from the get-go. I would suggest moving on, and stop seeking approval from women. Do the reverse, make them seek yours.


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