First post here. Actually looking for some unbiased opinion from perfect strangers, and if you happen to know your way around women as I'm guessing most people on this forum do (unlike me, might I add) even better
So I met this girl a long long long time ago (about 10 years ago) and at the time I was even wimpier than I am right now and kind of always avoided her because I was too shy to even try anything. She did give me a few signals of interest here and there but alas I was an idiot and so it went.
So we eventually stopped frequenting the same places and went on with our lives separately, we've only met up once ever since (which was already 3 or 4 years ago). She was very nice and all but I was in a relationship at the time and it ended up nowhere as usual, much to my regret.
So here's the point, after all this rambling. I can't stop thinking of her. Really. Every fucking day (well not every day but very often lol) for 10 years so right now I'm kinda willing to say WTF and at least give something a try - or at least *do something*. I have regretted never doing anything for all this time and honestly I really just don't want to regret this my whole life. I don't care if I'm rejected / ignored / punched in the face, I just want to have that feeling that "at least I tried".
The problem is, the only real way I have to contact her in any way is through Facebook. Yeah. I kinda dread online attempts at this so I'm really in a big dilemma. Should I give it a go? Should I just forget it once and for all? What should I really say? Is the Facebook-thingy even acceptable to try something like this or is it as awfully crappy as it looks to me?
Tks for your patience