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    MrKite is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    I've been seeing a girl since March and while we aren't "together", we spend time together... hang out, have sex, kiss goodbye, cuddle, etc.

    There's a lot of affectionate elements that make me hesitant to call us 'fark buddys' or FWB--- but its also not like we say "i love you" or anything like that. We've just never really had the "what are we?" discussion. We never really did the 'formal' type dates (you know like candlelight dinner etc). It's just more casual. I really like her but I have no idea how think she thinks of me. I'm very inclined to believe it's about more than sex - but again, we haven't had the conversation. Would we do these other things if it was "just for fun" ? I dont know.

    The problem..
    So I'm going to school down state (about an hour or so away) in 7 days.. I have NO IDEA what to do. I'm absolutely terrified of loosing this girl because I've never liked someone so much in my life. I'm disappointed in myself for waiting to the last second with this huge problem.. I just been afraid to sound ridiculous when we both know that I'll be at school.

    I know a lot of people are going to tell me forget about her- just move on and see other people and perhaps we can pick it up later on.... This isn't an option. I want this girl. No one else. Besides you can't just "pick it up later" , that'll never happen.
    I also know 'long distance' has a horrible reputation. How could I even consider this if we're not even "together" now.

    What should I do? How can I tell her?

    Thanks

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    MrKite is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    sorry for rambling.. my head is imploding.

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    DieselFuel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    An hour away is nothing buddy.
    Im in pretty much the same situation right now, except shes the one moving out to college. She moves out in 6 days to NYC while Im here in FL.

    The solution. Honesty. Tell her straight up.
    Seriously, think about it... You've got nothing to lose (because if you dont tell her you'll lose her anyways) and everything to gain.

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    MrKite is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    you're right.. I kind of realized this. If I take no action I will loose her. If I do, at least I have a chance.


    The challenge in my case is we haven't really gone through the dating phase. I think it usually goes from 'seeing' to 'dating' to 'relationship', and while we have sex and hang out, just haven't done the 'romantic dating' part. Hopefully it won't complicate things any further.

    best of luck to you mate.

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    STAT is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    It's an hour away man, you can literally see her every day.

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    MrKite is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    well i checked the time and its over two hours. each way.

    yeah its do-able, i just dont know if she'll think it's worth the difficulties of long-distance when we don't have a established relationship, it's only the beginning (of anything serious)

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    Default Re: I'm Moving... Be my girlfriend.

    i guess my question now is how to bring up this conversation.

    something like "i want to be WITH you" the right way to put it?


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