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    Hellius is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl is ignoring me

    Went on a good first date with this girl on Friday. Found out along the way that she has a boyfriend and he's cheating on her, but we still hit it off pretty good. She seemed interested in me and even hinted at breaking up with the other guy. There was no physical connection like kissing; she said she didn't want to be a hypocrite.

    Anyway, I give her a lift home, we go our separate ways, and we have an hour and a half conversation through text messages about music.

    She eventually starts whining about how she feels like sh1t because she's being cheated on, and how she feels inadequate. I tell her: "Just feel lucky that you've got him to keep you occupied while I'm not around."

    She didn't answer and has neglected to respond to my other texts that I sent Saturday evening and this morning.

    Recovery possible? Any suggestions?

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    joe23652a is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl is ignoring me

    She seemed interested in me and even hinted at breaking up with the other guy.
    kinda standard for them to say this just to string you along some more to further feed their ego
    There was no physical connection like kissing; she said she didn't want to be a hypocrite.
    she didn't want to be a hypocrite yet she went out with you?? this girl is full of bull*****
    give her a lift home, we go our separate ways, and we have an hour and a half conversation through text messages about music.
    Nice way of showing her you have a life. You just went on a date with her and you couldn't keep yourself from talking to her after but instead you chatted for an hour through texts?? That just makes you look awful. Sure you're keeping her entertained but don't think for 1 minute she didn't think of how much time you have on your hands.
    She eventually starts whining about how she feels like sh1t because she's being cheated on, and how she feels inadequate. I tell her: "Just feel lucky that you've got him to keep you occupied while I'm not around."
    Heard it a million times. She whines about her a**hole boyfriend to the nice guy friend of hers while she keeps on f****** him and won't leave him.

    You are not going to like what I say to you brother. In all my time in pua forums (couple of years now) I have seen posts like yours hundreds of times.

    It's always the same old story, guy being used as an ego booster/emotional tampon for girl with a boyfriend. I have yet to see hero ever steal her from her boyfriend, EVER!

    and you know why? Because this is a common game women play. They don't string you along cause they want you they do it to feel better about themselves due to their jerk boyfriends giving them a little drama.

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl is ignoring me

    can't agree more with Joe.

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    Default Re: Girl is ignoring me

    + 1 what Joe said.

    Never be the nice guy, NEVER.

    Nice guys finish last if ever. You have to play their game but better.

    I've hooked up with a girls that were engaged to total losers and had them toss the ring back. They didn't want to break it off but knew they had to. Situations like this is where a heavy knowledge of NLP comes in handy.

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    edmundek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl is ignoring me

    You can do two things -

    1) if you know where she hangs out or where she works, drop by during lunch or dinner and try to text her maybe one hour earlier. But not too early or she will think it is deliberate... too late she might have other appointments. then you'll know yeah...

    2) Move on.

    Cheers.


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