I hope someone has some advice on this.
My problem is that I find it really hard to get my voice level right. Most of the time I go too quiet, and she can't hear me, and this conveys a real wuss vibe, but other times I push it, and come across as shouting, which sounds either annoying, or "trying too hard."
In a club also when talking real loud I find it really strains my voice, and after a few hours I begin to get real croaky.
Any advice, or is it just "practice to calibrate"?