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    Default Approach Help

    About a week ago while early in the training, i approached two girls and a guy sitting down, i use the simple opener of if they had seen any good movies they'd recommend. One girl was helpful and the other girl and guy seemed to be wierded out or stuck up. I tried to get everyone's opinion to keep them all in the conversation, but the two kept giving weird laughs/snickers to each other while the one girl was still being helpful. I am wondering if some people are always just gonna be weirded out by someone approaching them or if it was something I did. (i know i didnt give a time constraint that could be it?) Also i was wondering if i should have maybe NEG-ed the girl who was giving strange looks if so, what could that have been? THX

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    Default Re: Approach Help

    nope bad time for aneg,
    what you should have done was open the man fisrt, and opened the group
    movie openers arnt really that good in clubs, and by all means dont neg a girl thats being nice to you!
    neg'n is for bringing them down to your level and/or opening the whole group at their expense, not a go-to im losing it crap insult her! haha
    but it may not ahve involved you at all to be honest. i open girls expecting the very very worst. but end up getting better then i thoguht it would be. i thought id have to openan win agroup to find they all let me hit on their friend becasue im already social accepted before i realised it. they may ahve just let you two talk! next time, try involveing them afterwards,
    remember win the men and the women will follow.

    best of luck
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    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: Approach Help

    I agree with everything that Bradders said. After identifying all the people in the group (set) start diffusing the people that could potentially stand in your way. By diffuse I basically mean: befriend them. Sometimes they save you the trouble of even opening the girl you are interested in.

    For example:
    At a sports bar one evening I saw a group of 2 women and 1 guy. The two girls were side-by-side and the guy was to the right of them. The girl furthest away from the guy was the one I really wanted to meet.

    I approached the guy to ask him about which drink he thought was best for a light weight (referring to myself ) and handed him the menu. He started looking and made a selection. I ordered it and continued to ask him a little bit about himself. He asked a few questions about me and my interests. We had a pretty good chat.

    A few moments later I asked about the girls he was with. He proceeded to tell me that the girl next to him was his wife and the other was her friend. The verbiage he chose was: "... and that's her friend, *whispers* she's single." Then he takes the time to introduce me to her. Nice!
    - Spool


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