This one is driving me nuts. I WAS in the friendzone, hopefully I'm on the way out. Need an opinion if this is worth pursuing.
1. Recently her behaviour towards me has become much more submissive. Goes out of her way to do nice things for me, offers to make me dinner, just generally defers to me. She also has started to be much more giving towards me.
2. Mirroring. She mirrors my facial expressions and speech. She does this a lot.
3. Has started to initiate touch recently. However it is still very slight and painfully slow in escalation.
4. Kiss on the lips (no tongue). Initiated by me, but she kissed me back.
5. We've started to go out on dates. (One so far, which seemed to go well. We were supposed to go out on another one but I cancelled at the last minute because I had another date with someone I KNOW puts out, I don't have oneitis.)
6. She has recently begun to sh1t test me- a lot.
7. She's changed in front of me a couple of times. (just down to her underwear, not naked)
1. Her body language is not always great. She does look me right in the eye and lean forward, but she also often keeps her space and keeps her legs crossed. This is starting to change, but very slowly.
2. Big one- she often doesn't get made up for me when I come to see her. (but she looked smoking when we went out on our date)
3. I have NEVER hooked up with her and I've known her for years.
4. I know that I'm not her type physically.
5. She complains about having no sex drive. She has had some recent issues and is on medication, but this is BS...right?
I'm not sure if these are positives or negatives:
1. She has recently started insinuating that she may want to marry me someday. She sounds serious.
2. She has mentioned that she would be into watching me fark another girl, provided it was the right girl (whatever that means). BTW this girl has always had some far out there sexual proclivities, so this isn't out of the ordinary for her, it just is when it comes to me.
3. If I stay over her house, I still sleep on the couch. But she doesn't sleep. She'll come into the living room every couple of hours to check on me.
It HAS to be that she likes me, no? Or at least she is thinking about it? How do I escalate this? She seemed pretty disappointed when I cancelled our recent date. Like I said, I wasn't playing her I really had another date with someone I'm farking.