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    Default Too loud to hear in a club

    a friend of mine has particular trouble with this, but i too have felt the harsh sting of a club too loud to talk to girls in any real sense!

    its annoying too because it can really end a game when your in the opening stage and having to repeat yourself several times, even to a point you hear them say"i cant hear him" just killer

    to some extent it could just be a sheild device, but to th3 situations that it isnt! can anyone give me advice to tackle loud clubs like this.
    and im not refering to quiet parts of a club or the smoking area, becasue you cant always lead them there , and it will look terrible to wait for agroup to move to a location before opening. especialy if they notice.
    any advice>?

    and a side note, any advice fo r my friend that just lets it end his night and ruin his mood(hes probably just scared and using it as an excuse) so anyhting to tell himt o snap out of it would be appricated. id give up wing'n with him but his friend is pretty good and he can only come out if he stays with there terrible one xD ahhh fat friends! lol
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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    If the music is that loud, you should probably forget about opening a group, and go for a particular girl instead. That way, you can stand close to her and you won't have to repeat yourself all the time. I know this takes away a lot of your value demonstrations, but if they can't hear you, they won't notice those anyways.

    If you've been getting IOI's, all you need to do is make a "come over here-wave" with your hand. They'll come if you're in the group next to theirs.

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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    Agree with above response... All i would say is practice talking louder. As for your friend, sounds like he might be dealing with aa

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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    Quote Originally Posted by KennyPowers View Post
    Agree with above response... All i would say is practice talking louder. As for your friend, sounds like he might be dealing with aa
    oh yeah obviouse shit, he really does get pissed off when i try ehlp him though it but thats probably me. ah well hes probably not cut out for the game

    but as for Virg's post, i cant agree, i mean yeah tahts fine but i dont feel i have a natural advantage so i dont think ic an get the IOI's without the opener, i didnt think i could get a ball rolling, or even get them to me without me doing the work(this may be psychological) not a hit at your game. ims ure it works for you. but i open sets becasue ica nt isolate to begin with otehrwise i would have. but even so, what if i opena set only to realise that they cant hear me. should i just leave them happier then when i arrived and leave hoping they leave later?
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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    I get iois without sayin a word all the ti
    me... Its called swagger son!

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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    i do have a swagger, and ims ure i do get IOI's but i dont pay attention to IOI's unless im in the conversation iv chose, its not a game thing its a low self esteem thing
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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    If you can dance REALLY GOOD, then it's on and it will require no effort on your part. You get the attention of the whole club, they'll open you and pull YOU to a quieter place ( outside or their place and stuff like that ). Occasionally ( and if you're REALLY good at dancing ), they'll even fight for wanting to talk to you. Even better if you're with a hot chick-friend.

    Just make sure you keep your game tight and sh1t-hot after the pull and take no sh1t from them.

    Here's a list of what I do after a bounce ( Disclaimer : They're obnoxious ) :

    - Burp as loud as possible and tell her "Stop burping, dude".*
    - Write "Smile if you masturbate" on a piece of A4 paper and take pictures with her photo camera.
    - Play "Truth or Dare" and make sure that one of the dares is for her rubbing your nipples ( a dare given by your wing, of course; go VERY sexual on this one).
    - Another dare : Tell the Dragon Routine ( This one I'll detail in a separate post )

    * Funny story : Last night I was out with one of my friends and a HB7. She likes me very much but I don't and I try to gross her out as much as possible and be as direct as possible at the same time ( awkwardly direct, sometimes ), but it backfires, because what I do is actually working and she is liking me more and more. We were walking and my friend and I started burping and blame her for it. One time, I wanted to burp in her ear VERY loud, but my friend did it first. An old lady was right in front of us, 10 feet away. She started complaining "Oh, my God. How rude. You've ruined my entire night. I'm never going to take a walk around here again"


    Just go with the flow and make it happen.

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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    not sure the dance is the issue, im talking about opening with words. i dont need to build that game i mean opening the set of people in al oud club. not a dance floor
    moveover, my friend who i need to give the advice to wont dance either.
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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    Quote Originally Posted by KennyPowers View Post
    I get iois without sayin a word all the ti
    me... Its called swagger son!
    Kennys right, this is where im at my best because its all about the body language that you give off, show them your having the best time ever and Its all about having balls, once you notice several IOI's from a girl, go in for a kiss!

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    Default Re: Too loud to hear

    i dont count body language as IOI's simply becasue its pointless. and not to the total before escelation.
    having an IOI from your walk(which si fine by the way i knwo how to walk)
    or IOI from your body, or hair or fasion is pointless. becasue THOSE are superficial attractions. ones that change from woman to woman and NOT the point of this thread.
    i asked abo ut tips about TALKING in loud clubs, not other aspects of the game. im trying to get a rounded off area for all aspects of the game, not one line, otherwise if it doesnt work im scuppered.

    so let me make it clear.
    a loud club, or at least a loud second, do you ahev tips for projecting your voice, standing, words to avoid, and the like that would help me speak when its hard to be heard.
    even ways to persuade girls to move on. and not by cahnce, i mean yourself/myself moceing them on with conciouse effort. or mayeb unconciouse ones, maybe where you stand, simply wri ting this out over and over is helping me more then the replys lol no offense guys i knwo your trying to help and ia ppricate it. but im not looking for how you pull girls in loud clubs, though its helpful im sure to someone. but right now im trying to get spacific help with
    "speaking in a loud place"
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