Hey all, this section is the only sectioned that seemed appropriate to ask my question in so here i go: I am in a committed relationship and my girlfriend constantly tells me that "U dont know how to comfort or pamper me. Its not rocket science, other guys can do it easily i dont know why u cant"
To her i always tend to come of as a lecturer....for example a scenario and this almost always tend to happen during pms times when shes all not herself and is all blah and moody. I guess because i care about her so much i always try to get her to open up to me about whats bothering her or whatever and i know i cant force her to open up but i just cant see her like that i mean i know its all mother natures doing but i still try to get her to open up to me and i guess thats wat im doing wrong? i know sumtimes i go on saying oh u know u gotta b strong life is tough and it will all b ok if we take one thing at a time and not overwhelm yourself....is that me lecturing??
im lost and i would appreciate if i can get some positive feedback or negative per say but i really want to fix this.
Thanks in advance.