so there's this 9.5 asian chick(she is sooo hot omg) that rejected me 5 years ago when i was madly attracted to her (obviously since i knew nothing about the game at the time)...so later i sort of got over it and began demonstrating more S and R value, but the weird thing is that she's the one trying to get back with me now. she's a pilot trainee and keeps asking me to go flying with her. i have rejected her first request about a year ago, have ignored her request in the beginning of this 2011 summer, and now she has asked me to go flying on the third request. my question is, how exactly do i respond back to maintain attraction? her request went as follows:
"When will you gonna go flying with me man?"[the "man" is her playing along with me calling her "dude" and "man"on my last response-heard it creates attraction]
anyways, i'm debating between these 2 responses:
(1)sorry man but i'll be in brazil for a business trip for the remainder of the summer. but I know a friend who wanted to go flying and would be a perfect passenger for you
(2)are you asking me out.....man?
i sort of like the first one better than the second cause i feel like the second one presents "discomfort" or making it a "big deal". 2 things that mystery mentioned to avoid whenever speaking with women
anyhow, what do you guys think?