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    kartoshka893 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    so there is this HB8 that i have been pursuing for some time now. i have gotten her number and texted her a couple of times. the conversations never really went far. i would see her at parties and kickbacks every now and then and we would talk for a bit. The last party we were at, the two of us were pretty drunk and talked for about an hour about random things. I noticed a few IOIs (hair touching, exposing neck), but nothing that would be a dead give away that she was into me. after that talk i am convinced that i am friend zoned. I find it a bit hard to talk to her because i keep running out of things to say. I unfortunately dont remember TOO much of what was said in that long talk. Is there anything that i can do to get myself out of this situation and build attraction with her? or should i just move on and leave it alone?

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    Default Re: friend zone help

    well i think you failed to escelate really, not so much your in the friendzone now, but yeah your certenly getting there haha.
    when you notice 3-4 IOI's escelate, kino move closer, looking for IOI's do your compliance tests, DHV and the like.
    never be afraid to call it quits, if your inafriend zone a good way out is a freeze out and trying agian later. within reason of course

    best of luck
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    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: friend zone help

    Well, those WERE dead giveaways. Although you don't say that she gave you many IOI's, I might think she did gave you more but were too subtle. It takes some time to spot them. So, I don't think it was a physical escalation problem, more like failure to act.

    Yes, your situation is salvageable. I really can't say exactly what to do, because it' so lacking of details that what I tell you can blow up your situation completely. But you can try being more fun and ball-busting.

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    Default Re: friend zone help

    thanks a lot guys, ill be sure to not make this mistake again. say i receive those same IOIs again (hair touching, exposing neck, moving a little closer), but i dont receive and kino...how do i go about initiating kino myself outside of the usual hug or handshake?


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