Re: 3 dates Analysis
well sebastian i think the most important thing is thats an awesome name!
but onwards after that the floors in whats happened are either really silyl ones or far out of my leauge.
so heres what i think is the issue.
your int he Friend zone.
by all means yes you were doing well when you fisrt met, but if your new to teh game or simply got by withotu realising it sometimes you switch to comfort too quickly after the hook, which means your making her too into the idea of you as a friend too quickly over anything else. its a mistake easy to do so dont let it get to you.
you didnt say but im going to assume you didnt with your attempts on the third meeting, if you didnt kiss her on the fisrt meeting,
always kiss her by the fisrt date, otherwise you are stuck being a beta male having to tell her you like her,
rule of thumb, the only place telling girls your feelings works is in the movies.
you may have also moved yourself to friendzone with talking about past relationships
this is a big big no-no, this assosciates you with pain of ex's and takes the focus away from happy subjects, for futur refrence avoid ALL mention of ex's and past relationships till you've got an F-close. with execption for hinting that your only interested inc asual fun, but even then, only if your doing very well.
women are very good at picking up movements, im not sure how you were trying to kiss her so its hard to tell where you went wrong but remember to do your complience tests, mystery offered a nice one i use which is you lean in and out slightly several times so it looks natural, but notice how she moves, when you lean in, does she lean out? does she stay where she is? your wanting her not to move(if she moves in HOT DOG kiss her there and then)
on a side note i appoalgise for using "hot dog", that saddens me.
her messages giving to you were either trying to nicely keep you away from her without hurting your feelings OR definiate friendzone where she was actually seeing you as a male wingman.
there is a thing as " too nice " which is a huge shame becasue that really shouldnt be, but it is my friend, so you can be nice in the way that your not being a dick, insensative and crude. otherwise women will class you as beta-male immedietly, and see you at best a friend becasu everyoen wants a nice friend, but as far as excitement goes, ncie-guys just dont cut it.
now im nice, but when i talk to women im polite, nice, respectful but not thepoint where they think they own me(becasue they WILL think that) becasue im being a push over, im still the prize and im still in charge, i can leave, i have choice and I chose to talk to HER shes lucky.
being nice, and being a nice guy are differnt things. when your out next, when you neg or DHV notice how you sound, or how other people sound when they boast, do you feel what you did was nice? or nessasary to get across your point that your worth more time then she gives you.
when you fall into friendzone its hard to get out, blow her off once or twice, still be nice of course, arrange to meet up inafew weeks(close to the time of course) and try it from there with yuor fisrt date game
take the conversation away from ex's and mroe onto having silly fun, fun adventures, ways to excite yourself, remember your kino my friend
best of luck
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