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    Question First meetup/date tomorrow with an HB9 from OkC. *Convo Incl

    Hey what's up guys,


    I'm meeting up with a girl I msg'd on okc tomorrow. I'm not sure if I'm playing my cards right

    We are most likely going to go out for drinks and food. I was wondering about the paying situation. To build more attraction I shouldn't being paying, right? But from this conversation it seems like she's expecting me to pay:
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    On Okcupid:

    ME: Hey what's up, how are you? Are you practicing law in Lodi?
    HB9: I was going to, until about 5 days ago, when the firm informed me they are closing down. AGONY But I'm here now, and looking for jobs, and available for drinks and/or food with charming and/or handsome men, preferably both. Yes?
    ME:Ahh I'm sorry to hear that. That does sound agonizing. But... If you try hard enough, compromise a lil and remain optimistic, something always comes up. So go get 'em tiger! Are you free sometime this week? I come to the Stockton area quite often. My rlly good friend lives there
    HB9:I'm free pretty much all the time right now... So yes, definitely let me know when you're in town! You're in Merced, right? An hour and a half...that's not TERRIBLE. My number is (***) ***-***4, and my name's **na.
    ME: 1.5 hrs.. Yeah I think I can handle that, it's hwy 99 so bleh. I'll let txt you soon and hopefully we can come up with a game plan. Nice to "meet" you lol I'm Del, btw
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    I wait about 2 days and text her this:
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    ME: **na?
    HB9: Yes?
    ME: This is Del from okc lol. How are you?
    HB9: I'm good, how about yourself?
    ME: I'm good, just stuck in traffic. I'm on my way home from the bay area. You have an OC number? I recognize the *** area code. I used to live in costa mesa
    HB9: Yes, I'm from there. Born there and went to UCI for 5 years...I miss it! Really hope I can move back soon. I just moved here from the bay area, incidentally
    ME: Really? Yeah, living in that area was a blast. There's a big chance I may be moving back to southern cal soon. You're starting to sound like me... I just moved back to Merced from sf! Are you able to hang out tomorrow?
    HB9: No, I have plans...but after that I'm free. I'm also trying to move back to OC/LA soon. Lol
    ME: K how about Wed? I can't do Thurs or Fri. And since I'm coming to you, you can pick the place (: How did you end up working for a firm in Lodi of all places?
    HB9: It's a long story... Wednesday works for me.
    ME: Sounds good
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    I'm sure that she's dating other guys too bcz of her free time. I'm sure those guys are also paying for her dinner. Although money isn't an issue for me, I wanna build the best possible attraction. Should I pay or not? I don't want to look desperate. I am also driving 1.5 hrs to go see her. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: First meetup/date tomorrow with an HB9 from OkC. *Convo Incl

    ah simple stuff my friend!
    on aside note you have good text game so well done there! only note, i would never let her pick the place, especiayl for a fisrt-time meeting, you choose you organise, makes yo ulook like you have the power.

    remember to have more then one place planned, going to several establishments gives the impression you've known her longer then you actually h ave(sneaky i know )

    but your real question
    yes pay,
    and mroe importantly dont make any sort of deal, dont say anything about it, if she says shes going to pay, look at her with a sarcatsic look and roll your eyes saying
    "yeah sure you" witha chuckle"
    or
    if she mentions it just say
    "dont worry about it!"

    doesnt matter, jsut go, pay, dont mention dont look at your wallet with big sad brown eyes, just pay as if it ment nothing

    this istn becasue you want to look like a big shot
    its becasue it gives the impression your not petty, and that your layed back. if you give the the role of responsible in your chats and the li ke, then seam layed back, it makes you inrpedictable but at the same time reliable, which women will love.

    you'll do fine im sure my friend

    best of luck
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    responsive to change." Charles Darwin

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    Default Re: First meetup/date tomorrow with an HB9 from OkC. *Convo Incl

    Quote Originally Posted by Bradders View Post
    doesnt matter, jsut go, pay, dont mention dont look at your wallet with big sad brown eyes, just pay as if it ment nothing
    Yeah, this the approach I was thinking. Just make it very casual w/o the awkwardness - thanks

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    Default Re: First meetup/date tomorrow with an HB9 from OkC. *Convo Incl

    apply it to every and anydate! i never care(im quite poor)
    but im not seeing ehr for fanacial reasons lol
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