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    Default Getting IOI's from girl at work, how should I continue?

    Been getting a lot of IOI's from a new girl at work, and even though she's cute, I'm really just trying to get in some practice at sarging. Anyways, I used an open I found here on the threads and had her laughing while tossing small negs at her. She invited me over for a movie unfortunetely I had prior plans that I could not break off from, so I number-closed instead. I didn't see her at work for several days than ended up going on a short 3 day vacation with my ex-girlfriend, so I didn't call her. When I return to work, I find out someone at work told her I was on vacation with my girlfriend, even though I told her I was single. She confronted me about it today, and I assured her I wasn't dating this woman. So I talked to her for a while and got her laughing again and being playful. Than, out of nowhere, she starts giving me some weird cold shoulder shit like she wasn't interested anymore. I tried to "punish" her by flirting with some other girls at work I've known for a while, but it seemed to just piss her off more. She left without saying a word to me for the last couple hours. I guess my questions are: Did I not make the right move to pull her back in? What could I have done better? Is it fixable? Like i said sarging this girl has been easy at this point, because I'm not really that interested in her, but I want to learn from this. Any expert advice would be killer.

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    Default Re: Getting IOI's from girl at work, how should I continue?

    Hey Guitarist,

    It could have been a number of things that turned her off. Maybe she caught on that you were "punishing" her. Or she could have decided she didn't like the ex-girlfriend trip after all. Or you could have said or done something else that made her think you were kind of a wuss. Or she could be into you and she got pissed off you didn't make a move. Sometimes it's hard to tell what it might have been until you've been doing it a while. And at that point, it doesn't really matter because you move on to the next one if it doesn't work out. Like you said, it's not too big of a deal and you can probably dismiss it if you don't know exactly what happened--I can't tell for sure.

    More to the point though, I'd highly advise against sarging at work. You can really awkward up the whole place and even get fired. On top of that, everything you do wrong gets around to everyone else and you get a very strange reputation. My advice is to go for girls you don't know--try bars, clubs, bookstores, coffee shops, etc. It's more difficult since you don't have a natural reason to start talking to them but it's worth being able to experiment without any serious repercussions.


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