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    Default Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    I'll give you some back story and bore you first:

    I meet her once when she had a boyfriend and we flirted all night and her friends kept telling us how cute we were together. One day she gets at me on facebook and said I should come into work because they need help (I used to work there before she started.) so I go in and just stayed on her side of the shop I talked to her made her laugh and flirted with her for about 2 hours before we exchanged phone numbers. At this point they are broken up for atleast a month, she broke up with him

    That night she got a hold of me and said she was looking for something to do so we found a party to go to and we hung out all night. That was 3 weeks ago. We texted each other every day since then for extended amounts of time. She got a hold of me last Friday and said she wanted to see me I should come into work. So I did more flirting talking making her laugh. The 2 of us ended up riding around in my car from 10 - 3 am just talking getting to know each other.

    The next night we started drinking together riding around in a car booze cruise they call it at like 5pm. We went to a party until like 3 am until she was ready to go to her friends house and sleep. We got in bed together and talked a little bit.. And she told me she didn't know what she wanted because she just got out of a serious relationship. I told I understood and didn't want to pressure her into anything and that I liked what we were doing. Flirting hanging out and lots of texting. She said ok and we had a make out session and went to sleep.

    I know she wants to be single and have fun but she text me everyday.. And if I dont respond I end up with multiple messages. I need some help with " idk what I want" and this "friends" sh1t

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    see other people, let her know you arent waiting around forever. if you wanna enjoy yourselves for what it is without being titled in a relationship by all means enjoy yourself. however i dont think she wants to get into a relationship so soon after one. thats going to take some time.

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    Thanx for the advice. I talked to her last night which lead to me being placed in the dreaded friend zone.. Skanks are confusing. I kinda wanna ask her if I have any chance of crawling from the pit that is the friend zone? Or is that a desprite needy move?

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    Definitely don't ask her that. Don't do anything needy in fact...let a few texts pile up here and ther before you answer and show her that her decision hasn't affected you. Keep up the flirting and making her laugh and giving off a positive vibe to make her want to be around you. Also use kino and develop sexual tension.

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    Also good advice I was gonna not hang out with her for a week or so and let her do w/e she wants to. But I don't get her the past 2 days she has been blowing me up in text. She got a hold of me at 7am this morning we talked till 9 till I lied and told her I had a work related meeting to go and I would talk to her later.

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    I didn't talk to her a few hours and like clockwork she has texted me wanting to know how my meeting went, and if I want to come booze cruising with her and her friends....

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    Default Re: Need male advice on "I don't know what I want yet"

    When a woman tells me she doesn't know what she wants, in regard to a relationship, I generally reply with something similar to:

    Let's just let fate and chemistry decide.
    Followed with a small, sensual kiss.

    Women are entranced by the concept of love occuring without those experiencing it having to make it happen.

    If I'm feeling ubercocky at that moment, I reply, "I do..." and give her a controlling kiss.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.


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