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    RonnyC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Salvation! dealing with a losing bet.

    fancy a girl from my yoga class for a long long time. Finally got the gut to ask her out for a coffee a month ago before I went for holiday. She rejected me. Then after my holiday, I bumped into her again before the class started today. I had a very brief chat with her. The conversation was nothing but something about my trip. It wasn't deep enough but smth trivial. Then after the class, my head clustered with all negative thoughts. I didn't say bye to her or talk to her because I got paralyzed with all the negative thinking. It was so awkward. When she set out the room, I saw her walking past me and didn't turn around to say bye to me. I felt so gutted and chickened out to go up to her to talk again. As a result, I ruined my chance.

    In this situation, can I still salvage my chance. My head is telling me is not happening but my heart is telling me to give her another go.

    Do you guys have any good advice on it?

    Cheers
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    Matrimcauthon77 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Salvation! dealing with a losing bet.

    Hey Ronny,

    Sounds like you're pretty new to the game. First thing, I'd get used to making conversation work in general. You can do that by just talking to people in your everyday life. If you're in the grocery store, talk to the people behind you in line. Talk to the old lady taking fourteen years to pick a loaf of bread (something like "I think the bread aisle gets slightly longer every time I come in here). Just get the chatter going until you're pretty social overall.

    Then work on dialing up the sexual tension a little. Tease girls a little about things they say. Be a little cocky. Try and keep the clingy at bay and do your thing. Basically, be a higher status person than they are, and they'll be a little attracted to you. If you give off the impression that you're just taking a long shot with them, they won't be attracted at all.

    Hope that helps.


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