I've been seeing this girl a bit and I'm not sure where I'm standing at the minute. Basically I just want to bed her..no relationship desire at all. We've probably been on 4 or 5 outings and she's been over a few times. So not the most recent time, but the time before that, we got to doing foreplay stuff, but didn't go further coz she was on her rag (so she said), so I figured we'd do it next time for sure. However, she came round the other night and we didn't get past hooking up...she kept saying she was tired and i wasn't getting a good vibe off her. Could it have been something I did? - my energy in the most recent meeting was not up at where it had been previously...is there still a chance for me here? On average how many meetings would you guys think it would take to get the job done..is 4-5 too many? (this might be a silly question, since it can vary so much). Since then we haven't txted or anything, but we sometimes go days without texting, so we'll see.
Thanks for any advice.