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    Charrua89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Really Weird Flake

    So there was this girl, I met and n-closed at a club about 2 months ago. After sporadic texts for a month, I finally asked her out for some drinks one night and she enthusiastically agreed. The date went perfect, we connected from the get-go and we ended up making out in her car at the end of the night but no sex since she didn't want to do it on the first date. We go out again 2 days later and again she's really into me. We end up making out again in my car, I finger her, she gives me a handjob but she had LMR on going all the way so we don't have sex.

    So here's where the problem is. Ever since that night, I am always the one that initiates the conversation, and she always has an excuse when I ask her to go out again. The only time I have seen her since was about 2 weeks ago, when she showed up at this club I was at. I invited her the day before but she told me she couldn't make it, but at around 2am that night she sent me a text saying she was at the club. So we meet up and she's there with a guy. I asked her what was up with her being with a guy and she answered that I shouldn't be so defensive, that he is just a really good friend, almost like a brother to her. We have spoken a few times after that, but it is always me initiating conversation, and the last time I sent her a text she ignored me.

    I've given up on her, and I know that it's over, but I just can't figure out what happened. I want to figure out where I messed up so I can learn from the mistakes and not repeat them next time I am in a situation like that.

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    Charrua89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Really Weird Flake

    Come on guys. Nobody has an opinion on this?

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    Default Re: Really Weird Flake

    She freaked out about going further than she intended after the finger/handjob. You didn't help her justify it properly.

    Next time you saw her, you didn't respond appropriately to seeing her with a guy; she finished dismissing whatever "like" she still had for you.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Really Weird Flake

    Dude you should never have gone to the club after she said she cant come ,but went there you should have made an excuse.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Charrua89 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Really Weird Flake

    I was going to the club whether she was going or not since we were celebrating m friends bday. The whole club thing wasn't depending on if she went or not. Just clarifying


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