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    Default Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    So ive been getting a lot of IOI's from a girl in a club for school i'm in. in fact last night at an event my friend said that she kept looking over at me. I already have her number and weve had some flirty text messages in the past...so at todays meeting i was planning on making sure she was in viewing distance so that we knew where each other were. and sending her a nice playful text saying

    Hey after the meeting do you want to go get some coffee, look at me and blink once for yes, twice for maybe...and don't blink for 5min if no=p

    the concept behind it is that its a playful and nonthreatening way of asking her out, also its funny non-verbal communication during a meeting where your not suppose to be talking..also the dont blink for 5mins is obviously impossible which i thought was funny and the blinking once for yes is what you do normally so i thought that was also funny

    some flaws would be: she might not look at the text right away...and it might be a weird thing to say?

    i could always ask if person but i thought this was a more creative fun way of doing it

    ADVICE PLEASE

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    Whenever I ask a girl to hang out, it's less of an ask but more of a direct approach. I state something in the sense, "We should get coffee after this. Meet me at X place afterwards."

    I just recently asked a girl on a coffee date after meeting her at a bar. I simply said, "Sometime this week, we should grab some coffee." She said definitely she would love that. I then told her "Wed or Thursday is good for me." She agreed to Thursday.

    A lot of females are extremely hesitant to make plans, not because they don't want to hang out, but because they don't like to make decisions. So, you almost have to make that decision for them.

    For the fact that you want to text her, it's cute and fun, but like you said, she may not even look at her phone. And in a way, she may think, "He has to have been watching me to see if I blinked and the way I responded." I would just go with a more direct approach. Ask her in person. This shows confidence and initiative, both things girls enjoy. Eventually when you establish a more firm relationship and you guys have gone out for coffee a few more times, then throw in the fun little texts.

    I get being romantic is what woman want, but they don't want it right away. They want a confident man, but not a mush. Eventually, on special occasions, sure go ahead and be cute and fun. Be modest and moderate in it though. Everything in moderation.

    She clearly is interested in you, so don't worry and ask her in person

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    On a side note.... this is specifically in your situation. It would go differently if you don't see her often. But, however, you do see her so do the direct approach.

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    These are all amazing points, the thing i am apprehensive about is since well be in the group setting of the "clubs meeting" she might not be isolated and i'd feel unconformable asking her out in front of all the people. I know it could be as simple as "hey can i talk to you" to isolate but it still feels strange doing that in front of people i will see for the rest of the year since im kind of a private person i dont necessarily want everyone knowing my business...any advice on that?

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    Wait for the moment. Are there people there early before the meetings? Does she go early? Where does she go afterwards? I would just go with a situational approach. You might have to wait for the moment, but, I like to say never wait for the right moment, create it.

    Or you could resort to your text. Maybe even say something like, "omg I have this brilliant idea I have to tell you about, remind me after the meeting." Then tell her your idea of her getting coffee with you. It worked for me this weekend. She said I was a brilliant man for my ideas.

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    i really like that "omg opener" i think that would work perfect because we wanted to watch this movie together, and its raining so i could be like "omg i have a great idea, remind me after the meeting"...then later i could be like my great idea is that since its raining you invite me over to watch (the movie)

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    Default Re: Playful way of asking a girl out...advice?

    Don't get to eager. Do the coffee house first. Control the conversation while in the coffee house to watching a movie with her at her place....you have to crawl before you run, unless she is all over you like white on rice then by all means give it to her.


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