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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    You may be the most needy man on this forum. You have managed to squeeze the most demonstrators of lower value into a couple of attempts at discussion I have ever seen documened.

    Stop.

    Read through some posts on here and do as they have already recommended to others.

    Fail a few times after following their (good) advice and ask as things come up.

    Don't give up, just make a huge change in your methods.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    Move on. It's all a numbers game at times. Most importantly, stay positive!!!

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    I'm going to be blunt with you.
    The best advice I can give you is to stop acting so needy.
    The "did you get my email" email would have killed off an interest she had.
    If you go talk to her about it she'll think you're a creep/stalker. Don't be that guy.
    I've made these mistake when I started out too man, I think most men do at some point. Its part of the process and learning to deal with the disappointment will make you emotionally stronger.

    So draw a line under, learn from the mistakes you made and find some new girls.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    Yeah man, hate to say it, but it was pretty awful. As Mr Hyde said, association is a much better and simpler way to create and maintain a connection. You basically should 'stick' in her mind as a result. And definitely go for the numbers, emails are almost useless; chat is a lot better.

    Also, much more cocky funny is needed at this point. Don't be afraid to be yourself and you'll figure out her type soon enough.

    Hope this helps!

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Pleas

    Hey man,

    Yes, get the # not email. Also don't do the self deprecation in your initial contact. Assume high value for yourself otherwise what is she going to assume? Remember that self deprecation is the man equivalent of compliment fishing that girls do. Its annoying.

    and for what it is worth, never, ever follow up with "did you get my message" in any form. Don't even bring it up when you see her, anything like that will come across as needy and that is not what women are looking for. I personally go with the two call rule. but it works for any contact medium, if I have made two contact efforts of any sort and do not receive a response that I like I don't put out an effort anymore.

    You did a good job of building a memory with her with the watch, unfortunately it was lost in a muddle of you telling her that you weren't worth actually remembering. Kudos for getting her to give you the email address, as mentioned in the post above, do the same thing and go for a number.

    Remember, anything other than success was just practice.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Pleas

    Yeah that second email destroyed any single thread of attraction she had left for you after that needy mess of a first email you sent. Not trying to be a d1ck bro, just trying to help you out here.

    Telling her she probably forgot your name was a very DLV statement. You were an interesting, alpha guy and she damn well remembers you. That should be your mindset here.

    The whole webmaster, siblings, rock n roll, blah blah blah thing should be saved for much later. You're qualifying yourself to her on the first message? Big no no. Shell find out about your interesting life when you get a date set up. Instead make her qualify herself to you.

    Talking about the weather? Really man?

    Don't say "I hope to hear from you soon" as that is being needy of a response.

    Well I think you've managed to open, rekindle attraction, build rapport, and close all in the same message. I'd recommend searching text game and Facebook game on these forums and read what works and doesn't work for guys here. Shoot, take a look at my post. Had a great opener then killed it with my response. We all make mistakes bro. Learn from your mistakes, don't make the same ones next time. It's all trial and error.


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