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    Angry There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    So i spoke to a girl last friday and asked for her email and she gave it to me. I emailed her on Sunday Night at 8.35 pm and still until now, there has been No Word! Do you think she will reply back? I mean, Why would she GIVE ME HER EMAIL in the first place? It doesn't make sense and it would just be plain DISHONEST of her! Please, some input would be Greatly Appreciated! Thanks Heaps!!

    Should I go back tomorrow and see her and ask her about it? Or should I just move on and not show her my face again? I think there's no point in going back ever again!

    P.S. I sent her another small email last night just asking her if she got my first email and still NOTHING!

    Do you think it's time i just Moved On and NOT TO SEE HER AGAIN?? I think this is THE BEST SOLUTION. To FIND OTHER GIRLS INSTEAD. I don't know and i'm Very CONFUSED Here. (

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    some people don't check their email regularly, you might have mistyped it or written it down wrong.

    regardless, you have no substantial investment here, move on. There are billions more where that came from.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    Brada your main mistake was asking for email ,where u give her the power ,always go for phone number ,and dont settle for less. Now your response to her not replying is something i want to address ,im gona make a post on that next month.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    I agree. Emails are horrible to go with. Go for the number.
    And some people, unless they have smart phones and have email access to same, don't check their emails on a regular basis.
    She might have not checked it, but then you sent another if she got the email. This makes you look needy. Shouldn't of done that.

    There are plenty of girls I know that I talk to on Plenty of Fish say they get so annoyed when a guy re-emails them or messages them again asking if they got their first message.

    Usually, if a message isn't received right, a domain error server message will be sent to you to your inbox so you will know. (Especially if the email address was mistyped)

    I would also advice to make a subject line that sticks out. Not just "Hey". Be creative. I do this for plentyoffish. I use something clever that stands out over the plain guys saying, "hey", "whats up", or "you're cute"

    Emailing someone can be tricky because, as for a majority of people, they get plethora of emails daily, majority of it spam. So if they have 100 new messages a day, then it will be hard to sift through yours if it isn't standing out.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    always go for the number dude. besides from what the others have said. it could have been a bad email to send, like not unique, creative, or intriguing to spark a response. with the number its a lot easier to do so with either a phone call or a text, a lot more personal that way as well. the second email sent was the thing that ruined all chances probably. anyways the world is your ocean, you just gotta keep searching each oyster until you find your perfect pearl!

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    see if the email leads to a facebook.

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    This is what I said to her in the first email... Tell me what you think of it Please...

    RE: Hey Kylie, It's Eissa from last Friday at (insert store name)...

    Hey Kylie,

    How are you going and what did you get up to over the weekend? I bet you forgot my name already as most people have trouble with it... Did you too? (-: It's me Eissa. I came to (insert store name) last Friday to brag to you about my baggy watch lol. I'm starting to get the hang of it now after you showed me *I know, should've read the manual first*. As i told you before I'm a webmaster and i've been in this job for the past few years now and am really enjoying it. I have three brothers who are all older than me and I really like rock 'n' roll and hip/hop music. I'm loving this weather meanwhile! It's about time it started getting warm. Tell me about yourself as you seem like a very nice young lady who has a lot going for her? I didn't want to write too much as you might start drifting off to sleep lol. You take care and enjoy the rest of your weekend as well. I hope to hear from you soon.

    Eissa

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    And this is what I said in the second (and FINAL) email...

    RE: Did you get my last message or it didn't reach you?

    Hey Kylie,

    How have you been? :-) I'm not really sure if my last message reached you or not? I sent it sunday night. Let me know if you got it or not? Thanks and take care and I hope you had a good day at work today.

    Eissa

    Can you Please give me advice as to what you think of the first email and if you have any Pointers for me Please? Thanks Heaps to you Guys out there in Advance!

    Take care and I hope to hear from you soon.

    Best Regards,
    Eissa :-)

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    im not the most knowledgeable in this field but i can tell you that you came across as too needy, especially with the second email sent. in regards to the first email, it was too long and you revealed too much information about yourself. you asked too many questions i think as well.

    all in all, dont be mad at the situation or at her. best thing you can do is to move on. meet new women, and enjoy yourself

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    Never ever say something like, you probably already forgot my name. Regardless how difficult your name is to say or whatever, this just shows lack of confidence. You better believe she remembers you. That is how you have to act. The email is way too long also. I don't think I have ever emailed a girl before. But I have sent messages via plentyoffish and facebook. All are pretty simple and to the point.
    What I also do in a message (especially a text) is I throw in something for her to remember me by. I have made it a habit now for when I meet a girl, I create this inside joke thing. It could be anything. For instance, girl in NYC I met, she was from uptown, so the Billy Joel song Uptown Girl came on and I gave her the nickname. So when I would text her, I would say "Hey Uptown girl." - This creates a quick remembering trigger for her and it also creates a level of comfort as if she knows you because you guys share something (the inside joke)... Another example is the other weekend, I danced with a girl for literally 3 hours. Reason being is that my best friend is dating her best friend. So we exchanged numbers, and I texted her calling her "dancing queen". She automatically recollects the events of the night with the nickname and stuff.

    Girls are complex but they are less complex then they and we like to think. Being simple and straight forward with some wit and charm will take you a LONG way.

    In regards to your situation, let it be and move forward. You clearly got her to give you her email, so go to the next girl you see, build up the same conversation, and get her number

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    Default Re: There's something that's really bothering me and making me angry? Please Help Me?

    It's all a learning experience. Learn from it, take notes, move on, and try again.


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