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    Default Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Whats goin on brothers...

    Alright im a Bouncer at a bar in Uptown Minneapolis, one night im workin the door and this HB9 shows up, i card her not really thinkin that it go anywhere from that. I see alot of 8's-9's come in so whatever...

    So im standin by the door and i could tell that her and her girlfriend were talkin about me, (they sat @ the bar directly infront of me) She kept lookin back tryin to lock eyes with me. I locked eyes acouple times but i remebered that confidence is the biggest winner so i acted like i wasnt impressed.( inside i was like holy schnit this chick is interested in me)

    About 10 min later a guy about my stature came threw the door and sat next to my target, they knew each other. Now i switched positions to the other side of the door to kinda always have her out the corner of my eye. She would talk to him and her girlfriend then peek around his back to look at me and get my attn. Then I noticed that she kissed him on the lips at one point so i was like schnit...
    The girls get up, go to bathroom and come up to me "whats your name" how long have u worked here, do u like it? u know yadda yadda type schnit..i played it cool u know like this happens all the time, but in all reality it doesnt...im attractive and a stalkier guy so i do get attn, but not like this b4...B4 they left she asked if i was workin tomorrow i said yes and told her the time i would be in...

    When i showed up 4 work she was already at the bar all the way across the room, so when i came around we locked eyes immediately, i gave her a head nod, she gave me a wave. i went back to my post at the door, she comes over 20 min later alone and makes small talk while pullin out her phone. Im checkin ID's so half payin attn when she says ill BRB...goes outside comes back 5 min later and says "ive got somethin for u." im like o really? she places her number in my palm and says hope to hear from u soon, then leaves for the night, kino'ing me out the door....
    So i know she is atleast attracted to me (IOI's up the wazoo)

    OK i know this story is long but i wanted to get as much detail as i could to u all to help me better...like i said this is probly gonna be THE hottest girl i have went out with and i dont want to fudge it up...
    Advice Please ??????
    Should i think anything of the dude she kissed or dismiss it?
    Im gonna call her today and have a day date i hope...

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Well, one thing you have to do is keep your cool.

    If she kissed the guy, oh well, who cares, you got her number now right? So clearly he isn't doing something right if she is going around giving you her number.

    Secondly, play coy and cool. Don't come off as too needy. Also, when asking to hang out, don't really ask out, state it. I get she is hot and all, but you can't let her have that. She already thinks she is confident as sh1t for going up to you and giving you her number, so now you have to go one up on her.

    Be creative also. Don't be like any of the other guys she is used to. That is where wit and charm come into play. Out of my friends I am the wittiest guy. I am quick with things when it comes to girls. It's actually crazy. So, when it comes to you, be different. Don't message her or call her saying, "Hey, remember me?"... Be funny. You were in the situation so you know what happened in the interactions with her. So think of something that happened and make it sort of a joke. Remind her who you are in that sort of sense.

    Just remember, she seems like the girl who knows she can get guys crawling for her, so don't be that guy. You need to the exception to her rules.

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Gud advice brada ,also remember ,she knows you work ,so jst keep busy this is a great oppourtunity to take control of the 'relationship' by making her go by your schedule ,because she has the control she engaged the interaction.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Thanks for gettin back to me so quick guys...
    Yea man I just got all nervous this morning when i got up.
    I just texted her around 10am sayin "Good Morning", still no response...
    Im not gonna text or call untill i get somethin from her, Right?
    or should i wait like a week n try again?
    See if she comes back to my bar?

    Thats One of my Shorts right now...Gettin to excited...
    Now that i know that im on her schedule, I have to fig out how to switch her up to mine...

    Mr8Hyde6: Any advise on how to go one up on her?
    She is a Bartender also in uptown...thanx to facebook for the sleuthing (didnt "friend" her) I got alota charm and humor ive just been outta the game for so long, finding how to ride again...
    Appreciate the help guys,

    One!

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    i dont think texting her the morning after was a great idea but hell ive done alot worse
    But since she said call me i think it may have been better to call her at some stage! I know phone calls are harder to do but hell everything takes practice. Lots of fuck ups will lead to being much better at it.

    Hopefully she will text you back in the next few days but you should eventually ring her in my opinion. Prepare for the phone call and even write notes so you are prepared for it to keep it flowing and fun! Maybe even have a funny story that recently happened to you ready!

    Some of this advice i have learnt from Sin and Savoy on their podcasts.

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Wrong move ,especially the content of your text 'good morning' she might not know who it is ,but i do think if yo text her Good morning + somthing cocky +your name ,it could go well ,just wait a bit ,plus by texting her you are taking control ,she did tell you to call ,u texted= taking control ,i hope you wrote yo name at the end of the text
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    Thanks Guys,
    Just a Flake i guess idk....
    Still no response, If no word by Sunday...
    FUGHETABOUTIT

    Learn from this i will!

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    I wouldn't of went with a just "good morning"... You should of added something cocky/witty along with it.

    You could wait a bit and just eventually call her. But if she hasn't texted back yet, she might just not know who it is.

    I woulda thrown out something like, "So what's a somewhat attractive girl that gives strange bouncers her number doing on a day like this???"

    It's reminding her of who you are by not necessarily being so needy about it and it's putting her a bit down by kind of making her seem weird in her own way because she did what she did. I am not a huge advocate of NEG'ing girls, but in her instance she knows she is hot, bartends so you KNOW she gets ALOT of attention. So in this instance, I would of done it.

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    right on, well she finally texted @ 4am this was all it said...

    Had such a busy few last days working, just got done

    OK well ill try neg'n her with what u advised she how she responds,
    Thanks again

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    Default Re: Hottest girl ive ever about to go out with...need help

    1. If you can't handle seeing a woman you don't know kissing a guy before you have spoken to her with intent to see her, you can't handle having an attractive woman of that level as your date or girlfriend.

    Having a very hot woman as your date means you will have competition. The competition for these premium beauties will be the men who are the best at picking up women.

    She wants a man. Hence, the approach to the bouncer. You can't afford to act like a pushover or someone who is unknowing with women.

    If you get to go out with a beautiful woman and another man hits on her, hold your ground, keep your cool, and acknowlege (to yourself) they don't matter. Move on as if it didn't happen; since you're such a badass it wasn't relevant.

    Read up on the traits of an alpha male. Right now, you're not it.

    2. I don't care what a woman tells me to do, for the most part, in regard to the text/call directive; I call the first time.

    I want them to hear my voice. My confidence, prose, and witty banter are hard to convey through text and powerful through voice transaction.

    If I have to communicate through text, I will, but I still make every effort to avoid asking them out through text. I'll just ask, "When are you available for a call? It won't take long, but it's important." Generally, this gets their wheels turning and they call soon or tell you when they can get away from work, school, whatever.

    3. I wouldn't text her back immediately. You're a busy, in demand man. I'd call her tomorrow or Tuesday for a date on Thursday. If she's a bartender, you don't want to take her away from the weekend tips this early on.

    Don't plan a whole day, she's a busy woman and you're a busy man, remember...after all, you shot her a text the next day because you knew you wouldn't have time in the following couple of days and you were reminded of her when you saw another woman wearing the same shirt she was the first night you saw her at your bar (and it was a very great shirt that complimented her impeccable style that is so trendy and fashion forward).
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.


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