Girl I was seeing for 6 months we work together but mainly just saw eachother at work and never went on many dates we would speak nearly everyday and got on quite well. Problem was she wasn't over her ex so could never give me 100% and most of the time wouldn't even say she was with me. Well recently she told me she met her ex and misses him and told me that it wasn't the right time for me and her. We saw eachother at work the next day and spent 12 hours together and barely said anything and then right at the end we looked at eachother and nearly burst into tears.
I asked her if she was ok and she told me "her feet hurt and enough is enough m8" while fighting off the tears. Now I had a female friend of 4 years who also works with us I told some of issues I was going through with her. I told her to just not say anyhting and be okay.
The female friend came to me while my girl was in a nearby room and said she had something to tell me. I said what, she goes "she told me she dumped her boyfriend for her ex and she cos she still wants her ex" My girl was nearby and kinda caught on we were talking.
My girl later told me the two had an argument, I said why? she said "I told her I dumped my ex, and she said ur were being a *****, and I said he was being dick" then she said my female friend was being rude. I said to her do you think she was meaning me and you. She said no....now my girl or ex girl looks like she doesn't trust me. At the same time though, she has played it off at work that I'm into her more than she is and told many people about me. We get on well, but work colleagues make us feel uncomfortable, ask questions etc etc. My female friend was being rude asked her if she liked anyone at work, my girl said no and my friend said to her "why don't you sleep with them all" My girl told one of her guy friends there something about me, the same day...so she is guilty also.