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    Default Need help with a girl that's studying abroad

    I go to a US college and recently started hanging out with a really cute girl who's studying abroad from Australia. We've hung out twice over the past 3 days for about 3 hrs total. Mainly we've had breakfast (no sex was involved the night before) and dinner with her friends. I'm pretty good with people so I think I made a great impression with her friends. The problem is during the dinner, one of her friends openly asked her about another guy. Apparently, this guy lives in Australia and recently asked her out over the internet. Unfortunately, my mind sort of went into system shock from hearing the mention of another guy's name so I could not hear what her response to this "guy" was.

    We've set up a time for another "date" and she has been really flirtatious and open (to a certain extent) with me. Nothing physical has happened yet between us (hopefully, it will the next time we go out), but I'm really worried of being sent to the friend zone. She's only here for a semester so it would not be surprising to me if she just wants somebody to know or a FWB. What I'm really wondering is if I should keep trying to have an extended non-platonic relationship with her or "cut my losses" and try for a FWB at the most.

    Btw, I'm asian, she's white and a bit taller than me.

    Any help would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need help with a girl that's studying abroad

    Don't conceern yourself about where you may end up with her, focus on what you can make happen now. Deal with issues as they are presented.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Need help with a girl that's studying abroad

    Quote Originally Posted by nik View Post
    Don't conceern yourself about where you may end up with her, focus on what you can make happen now. Deal with issues as they are presented.
    I feel like I'm slowly slipping into the friend zone day by day so what do you guys suggest I do in order to turn this around?

    My instincts tell me to just go for a direct approach, but I feel like it's too late for that and seems to me as an all or nothing kind of move at this point. Also, it'll most likely make me look needy as hell


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