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    butterflyeffect is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need help with my wing!

    Hey gents,

    it has been a real hassle finding a good wing in my area. With 'good' I mean that you are on the same wave, e. g. almost same clothing style, clubs you prefer and so on. You get the idea :-)

    After six month I found a guy, 4 years older ( I am 28) who was new in town and we connected via PU. I liked him, we both traveled a lot in our past and we had a good time picking up girls. After four nights out I started to introduce him to my social circle since he was new in town and does not really do much besides work and pick up. Good and valuable people. Girls who organise stuff, guys who naturally know tons of hot girls, bouncers and so on.

    It worked good for a couple of weeks. Now he starts to become all alpha towards me which pisses me off. Example? I am in a set and he comes towards us and is all like 'Dude, how much more time you need? You are slow' or I am with a girl on the dance floor and he starts waving because he wants to move to next club while I am with a babe.

    I told him that this is stupid but I am not sure if he got what I was saying. Next thing I know, he calls friends I have known for years wants them to party with him, which is cool, but not cool is not to even mention a single word like 'yeah Tom, you want to join us?'

    Any ideas what to do?

    Thanks in advance guys :-)

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    Mr8Hyde6 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with my wing!

    Tell him. Unless he knows what you're thinking, you can't expect him to.
    From what it seems, and from personal experience and from my studies, he might have something small against you that he is holding in that just built up.

    A lot of times this will happen with friends. They hold onto something that slightly bothered them about the other and then all of a sudden they hold it in, causing it to create this sort of tear in the relationship and neither of them really know why. So, my advice, open up and talk. Men are logical thinkers, not emotional. So just mention it in a conversational format.

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    Default Re: Need help with my wing!

    Yeah you must tell him ,but remember it might not be the only option. For instance if you tell him he might think you see him as a threat another option is to play your game and not give in to distruptions ,when he says you slow just reply with something cocky like ,thats how i wanna 'play' this one ,'nice and slow' and when he start waving if you in the middle of gaming make an excuse. Him calling your friends shouldnt be a problem ,u cant always be seen together ,so that you dont depend on each other.
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: Need help with my wing!

    If he continues to piss you off, find another wing. Or just hold off for a while and maybe he'll contact you later. Either way, as the other guys said, it's better doing something about it than ignoring it. Either way, hope you get it resolved!


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