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    sofian is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with girl next door

    Hello

    I have a cute girl next door. And somthimes when I am alone with here it succeeds me to make out with here. But then if I get home I receive a text from her that she couldn't do it with me because she has no feelings for me ect..
    But I want to date her but it is now hard to be allone with her. Always when I ask she want to go outside with me she always says somthing that she can't go outside now.

    So my question is what can I do to trick her to go outside with me and to kiss her without she texting me later that she has no feelings for me?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl next door

    Create feeling ,create tensions ,gals do not choose who they have feelings for ,but you as a guy can develop the ability to make them have feeling towards you ,using a physical connection(lust) or emotional connection(love) ,read seduction material you will find various theories on these connexions
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl next door

    One suggestion for you...

    She knows you want her, so she's letting you chase her. It makes her feel special. The next time you guys hang out, don't try to kiss her. Act like you are over her and give her a hi-five before you leave. Then go home and go to sleep (don't contact her).

    It'll make her start to wonder why you don't want her. Maybe you have someone else? Maybe she did something that makes her ugly? Either way she'll try to get your attention again.

    The next time you'll probably get the kiss. Good luck!

    Tank

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    thepainter is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with girl next door

    Hey dude,

    What I have got from your story is that you are quite focused on the result - to kiss her, with some feelings involved, eventually having sex with her. Every time when you stay focused on the result you are missing small details, part of the intercourse process. Those missed details eventually are leading to the fact she is turning her back to you.

    I know it sounds counter intuitive, but if you turn off at this .... it will have much better effect then keep trying to go out with her, and kiss her.

    Let me evaluate a bit more this concept for you. First of all, there are noting wrong with you to want her, and most probably she wants to be with you as well, but there is a big obstacle in between to of you.... your brain and her brain. In fact the whole process of interactions is kind of brain game (Eric Berne and his theory of transactional analysis is discussing this in more details). As we have our life's in a ultra busy times, we don't have time to process all external requests coming to us. That's why usage of patterns are coming into play. They allow us to classify, accept or reject those external requests in a reasonable time with almost no energy spending on them.

    You have those patterns inside of your brain.... and your girl have them as well. The problem is that they are different. It is the same like you are talking on a different languages. Do you think she will get you if you say to her .... I wanna kiss you in a exotic language (let's say Bulgarian)?

    First thing you have to do is to put efforts and learn her's patterns. May be you will find that girls likes to be challenged ... in other words they love to go for difficult, nearly unachievable things (guys). In your case you are giving yourself to her and she has to do nothing .....

    If you go a bit further you will find out the girls are not really sure what they like, that's why if her friends like something then she like it as well. In your case .... if she see you are hanging out with other girls .... this may trigger a process in her mind that going out with you could be valuable thing...so try to work on alternatives.

    Those are little drops in the complete intercourse, called social dynamics. There no guaranty you will get any girl you want, but there is guaranty that ones you understand the process of communication, this will bring you to a different world. Some people called this - the world of abundance, others - the world of happiness and success. I am quite sure you will see it in your own way.

    Wish you success with your girl, and don't forget to shift the focus from the result to the process of getting there.

    TP


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