i know its long but please read
So ive known this girl thats in my college club for about 2-3 weeks and when we first met i was getting a lot of IOI's(always looking at me, coming to sit around me after i was already there, laughing at my jokes even the less funny ones). i number closed her in the gym by pretending to not see her, and she came up to me "Look who it is!" the club was having a pizza party type thing and she asked if i was going, i said idk i dont have anyones numbers and i dont know when it is.she said "here ill give you my number" so we hung out a couple times in a group setting..i was still getting IOI's from her. Eventually i texted her saying somthing like "hey we should get to know each other in a non-group setting" she asked "like a date" i said "not necessarily" to make sure the hang out was a low pressure event. i told her we should take a walk around the local city...she said yes and that she hoped the weather was going to get better (bc it was raining alot) and i said "i bet its jst bc u want to see me =p) *cocky funny* and she said haha maybe ...anyway so last thurs. i picked her up for our walk around town. she wore a lot of perfume..which she hadnt done when we hung out in the group settings making me think she saw it was somthing she had to get "dolled up for" making me think she thought it was more than freinds hang out...so we walked around and went in some stores...we told each other a lot of stories about ourselves and she would be very passionate when describing them to me...when we got back she said she had fun, i asked what she was doing tom. (last Fri) and she said she was maybe going to the on campus dance club..i said that she should let me know if she is so we could meet up there bc i norm go there. she said okay...so the next morning when my car smelled very strongly of her perfume...i texted her saying "hey my car smells like you so i thought id say hi lol" *idk if this is a weird thing to say* but she said "i didnt know i had a distinct smell..." i was caught really off guard by this and felt like i offended her?..i just said back "oh well your perfume does"...i think she said "oh okay"...looking back i should have maybe added "and it smells good"---anyway that night i went to the dance club with my friend (she didnt text for the rest of the day) shortly after i got there she left (but i highly doubt she saw me)...like an hour later after me and my friend left i decided to text her to see what she was doing bc we didnt want our night to end she said "oh i left bc i didnt like the music there) ive noticed that im always the first to text and that when she does text back she is very delayed(i made my texting delayed also to not seem needy to to available)...so i decided to see if this was true and not text her first...so of course i was right and we havnt talked since that Friday night...however, today we had our club meeting..and i needed to know somthing about her friend (club related) so i went up to her and said "hey" she gave me a smile and a "hey steve" i think the fact that she said my name is an IOI maybe not...anyway as i was asking about the friend she got all blushed and red and seemed kind of nervous...so needing to know about the friend i texted her tonight asking about the freind. she is still very delayed...
anyway i am wondering what your opinions of this is...she does like me? was i too needy and availible...do i have a one-it-is (as style put it) do i need to come on stronger. is she intimidated bc i am a soph and she a fresh...or is she not interested ...if you need more info ill be glad to share it..it will just be good to have outside perceptive
my gut tells me that she likes me and my self-conscience limiting belief is holding me back...i feel like asking her definitively what she thinks of me or w.e but thats def putting her on the spot ..so i guess whats a more indirect way of figuring out what she thinks without putting myself out there, since i do have to see her again for the club (not the dance club place)