Today I went to the art supply store with my co-worker to get some work materials.
Last time I went there with him (a few months ago) I was clueless on the PUA world. I tried to game a clerk by telling her she was pretty and asking if she had a bf. She smiled and said yeah she did. I said "Oh lucky guy", went outside and waited for my friend. What made things worst, was he left his phone in his car and I just sat outside waiting for him while he looked for me for over 30 mins inside. Finally I went back inside and saw he had that same girl paging me over the intercom in the whole store. Him, her, and another chick were looking right at me. Needless to say, I felt retarded.
Today I went back and remembered everything, in a flash, right as we pulled up. I went about my business. As I was burried in one of the aisles, the same girl I hit on 8 showed up showing a female customer 6 to something in that same aisle. I said hello to both of them and made small talk with the 6 when the 8 left.
I did the push/pull with the 6 for practice and bounced. When I was paying for my supplies, the 8 showed up and acted like she was doing something behind the register, with her back towards me. I saw a clip on youtube with Mystery saying that the girl who wants you is the one with her back against you in close range. Even with researching so much, I still was AFC on what to say. I waved as I walked out and felt just like last time.
Was I supposed to open again? She had her hair messy and her clothes weren't amazing so I didn't think negging was a good idea. I didn't know whether to try to DHV or open a conversation with her to make her feel comfortable. I've read up on Neg, DHV, opening, kino, push/pull but honestly I don't know what order to do them in... Can someone please shed some light on this? Thanks for reading the long post.