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    Default Art supply girl

    Today I went to the art supply store with my co-worker to get some work materials.

    Last time I went there with him (a few months ago) I was clueless on the PUA world. I tried to game a clerk by telling her she was pretty and asking if she had a bf. She smiled and said yeah she did. I said "Oh lucky guy", went outside and waited for my friend. What made things worst, was he left his phone in his car and I just sat outside waiting for him while he looked for me for over 30 mins inside. Finally I went back inside and saw he had that same girl paging me over the intercom in the whole store. Him, her, and another chick were looking right at me. Needless to say, I felt retarded.

    Today I went back and remembered everything, in a flash, right as we pulled up. I went about my business. As I was burried in one of the aisles, the same girl I hit on 8 showed up showing a female customer 6 to something in that same aisle. I said hello to both of them and made small talk with the 6 when the 8 left.

    I did the push/pull with the 6 for practice and bounced. When I was paying for my supplies, the 8 showed up and acted like she was doing something behind the register, with her back towards me. I saw a clip on youtube with Mystery saying that the girl who wants you is the one with her back against you in close range. Even with researching so much, I still was AFC on what to say. I waved as I walked out and felt just like last time.

    Was I supposed to open again? She had her hair messy and her clothes weren't amazing so I didn't think negging was a good idea. I didn't know whether to try to DHV or open a conversation with her to make her feel comfortable. I've read up on Neg, DHV, opening, kino, push/pull but honestly I don't know what order to do them in... Can someone please shed some light on this? Thanks for reading the long post.

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    Default Re: Art supply girl

    All those stuff are irrelevent to pick up ,in my books ,they do help but if you just be alpha and have normal conversation you would do good ,but if you want order ,opening comes first ,then dhv ,kino then push pull ,but dats in my books
    Dont have routines as the cards in your deck ,have skill instead ,because once a routine is done ,its done ,you cant do it again in the same interaction ,but skills can be done over and over ,so then you could play a card twice.

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    Negging is tricky and can and can't work, depending on how well you can pull it off and act. I don't recommend it all the time unless the girl is just a complete 10 or 9 who knows guys hit on her all the time and acts like it. And if that, it has to be pulled off with some charm and skill.

    Just exhibiting confidence is the first step. Being an alpha is more about just being able to walk into a room with you head high and a smile, and people look at you like, "He's probably the man."

    I wouldn't of started off talking to her with telling her she looks pretty and if she has a boyfriend, both those things are irrelevant. Don't compliment a girl on her looks. If you wanted to compliment her, compliment her on something like her style. And then asking if she has a bf makes u look like you are curious about her. You have to make her curious about yourself. I know so many girls I am friends with who will just say they have a bf because they don't want to be bothered. It may or may not be true if she had a bf. And by saying he is a lucky guy, you are again, complimenting her more than deserved, and placing him (if he exists) into a higher bracket.

    Just for future, stay away from openers like that. Be more natural and funny. There was real no creativity in that opening.

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    Default Re: Art supply girl

    Thanks for the tips. I don't think I would have had such a rough go around the second time if I wasn't still caught up on the first time I tried to hit on her.

    I have a habbit of just walking into any place and doing what I went there for. I'm going to engrave it in my head to smile before I enter an environment and walk with confidence.

    @Mr8Hyde6. You said not to compliment a girl on her looks just her style/ clothes/ etc.. Is this so you show interest into who she is and not just what she looks like?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Art supply girl

    the reason being behind complimenting on her style etc is because every guy compliments on looks. Be the other guy. Girls love when a guy can notice something about their style and time they put into themselves. When you compliment style, clothes, etc, what you are doing is your exhibiting a higher value in yourself by seeing things that the other guys don't. It also makes them wonder what else you see in her because you noticed something other than her looks.

    I have talked to NUMEROUS girls and they all love to be complimented on style and clothes or hair cuts. It's more personal and thoughtful.

    Ex) cute girl working in Barnes and Noble. Had nice short hair. I bought something so as she was ringing me up, i mentioned I liked her hair. She smiled and said, "Omg thank you so much, i just got it cut the other week and wasnt sure if I liked it." I told her it looks good. EVERY time i go there, she smiles and goes out of her way to talk to me.

    I could of been every John Doe to her and said, you look cute. But instead I took the other angle. Now, instead of being John Doe. I am an actual person/guy to her

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    Default Re: Art supply girl

    Dude that makes a lot of sense. I'm going to try and focus on two things from now on, mostly at the gym.

    1) "Hey, I like the (color 1) and (color 2)", smile and point or nod at her gym outfit.

    2) Some hair or headband comment/ neg.

    It's better than "Hi gorgeous". Thanks for your help!


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