As you know it, i am new to this world. Just finished reading THE GAME by Neil Strauss and am trying to get this whole Mystery/Style teachings practical into my life.
To start with, let me tell you about myself.
I have not been laid for the past 3 years (I'm 24 now)
My last relationship turned sour after 2 years and ended back in 2009.
I am an IT guy living with my family, church every sunday, in the gym other days and i would say that i am a good looking chap who has all the qualities of a wussy.
Never really socialized due to the painful breakup i went through that took me almost a year to recover. I wouldn't lie that even now as i type this, i still have one side of me that is left hurt and longing to be loved or maybe with the same person again. This has lead me to be a total idiot whom never attempted or date any girl that i liked, i always felt rejected even without approaching and finally got used to being single and pretend the opposite sex does not exist.
Now about that girl,
She is from my church and i know her for 5 years already. She's a hottie that does modelling and still in college. Lives with her parents (strict christians) whom never liked the idea of me talking to her casually even in church!
She is friendly, yet calls herself complicated, i never had the chance to get to know her better besides sending messages on FB.
I am having issues getting her out on a date (which i am working on) and the next questions are -
1. how do i create attraction?
2. how do i get to kiss her on the first date?
3. how do i get her in bed?
4. how do i make her chase after me? (and eventually fall in love)
5. what do i have to do and change in myself to get the above accomplished?
I really need advice on this and how to get my old happy days back into my life which i dearly miss