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  1. #1
    Psych is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need desperate help with a hottie i've been trying to date and have sex :(

    Hi PUA's,

    As you know it, i am new to this world. Just finished reading THE GAME by Neil Strauss and am trying to get this whole Mystery/Style teachings practical into my life.

    To start with, let me tell you about myself.
    I have not been laid for the past 3 years (I'm 24 now)
    My last relationship turned sour after 2 years and ended back in 2009.
    I am an IT guy living with my family, church every sunday, in the gym other days and i would say that i am a good looking chap who has all the qualities of a wussy.

    Never really socialized due to the painful breakup i went through that took me almost a year to recover. I wouldn't lie that even now as i type this, i still have one side of me that is left hurt and longing to be loved or maybe with the same person again. This has lead me to be a total idiot whom never attempted or date any girl that i liked, i always felt rejected even without approaching and finally got used to being single and pretend the opposite sex does not exist.

    Now about that girl,
    She is from my church and i know her for 5 years already. She's a hottie that does modelling and still in college. Lives with her parents (strict christians) whom never liked the idea of me talking to her casually even in church!
    She is friendly, yet calls herself complicated, i never had the chance to get to know her better besides sending messages on FB.

    I am having issues getting her out on a date (which i am working on) and the next questions are -
    1. how do i create attraction?
    2. how do i get to kiss her on the first date?
    3. how do i get her in bed?
    4. how do i make her chase after me? (and eventually fall in love)
    5. what do i have to do and change in myself to get the above accomplished?

    I really need advice on this and how to get my old happy days back into my life which i dearly miss

    Please help

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    Thedude123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need desperate help with a hottie i've been trying to date and have sex :(

    My advice:

    Stop thinking so much and making a laundry list of way you want.

    1) tease her and make her earn your attention by acting very busy and always in a hurry. Never admit how great looking she is. If she does modeling, She will be attracted to this.

    2). Kiss-why are you worried about it? This can't just be part of your plan.....I would just go out and if it is a good time and she is showing signs, kiss her at the end of the night.

    3)get her in bed? She is a devoted Christian.... If she is true to this and you keep pushing for bed, she will sense it and you will be gone. Don't make this a goal just enjoy the company.

    4). fall in love? Worry about getting her on a date first.

    5) confidence, less thinking, don't stress.
    Last edited by Thedude123; 09-16-2011 at 01:16 AM.

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    Psych is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Wink Re: Need desperate help with a hottie i've been trying to date and have sex :(

    Hi Thedude123,

    Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it

    1. I've been teasing her on and off, like calling her names and never really complimented her beauty. She laughs and shows IOI's but it just gets stuck there!

    2. Kiss-closing is something i am really weak at to be honest. I guess its the fear of being next to a very pretty woman.

    3.I totally agree on this.

    Confidence, less talking, don't stress.. i guess this would be the rules i will need to follow through closely.

    I'm so hyped up with the Game theory that i'll be doing a complete makeover of myself over the coming weeks. Will be updating you guys on the outcome of the DATE soon enough.

    Cheers,
    Psych

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    Thedude123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need desperate help with a hottie i've been trying to date and have sex :(

    I'm doing the same myself bud. I just look at your situation from an outside perspective and it seems like you are stressing too much about that stuff. From my experience, when you are actually DATING a girl....the most attractive thing you can do is NOT act like a ravenous beast trying to get laid. Instead, be confident and insist that "it isnt a big deal". That is more attractive than anything AND it makes you unique.


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