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    RonnyC is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Baffling by ambiguous signals, need help -Story 1

    I have three stories to share. I will make them short and straight to the point where my questions are.

    Before I start, there is something I want to clarify. I am not being selfish not to share what I have learnt from this forum. The reason is if I posted everything in details, it would make this thread too long to read. In brief, these are my routines- cocky funny negs, the cube game, mistery's methods and the simple way to keep up a wonderful conversation which has been posted in this forum a while ago. THEY WORK LIKE A CHARM!! Of course, I still have a lot things to learn from this forum. it's only a start. Here is the story.

    a.) I met a podium dancer one and half months ago. After the night we met in a club, we were friends on facebook. I did ask her out once before I went on holiday for a month. Unfortunately she refused me with a nice message, full of similies. In that month when I was on holiday, I rarely talked to her on facebook. Once I was back in town, I started talking to her again on facebook and gave myself another go to ask her out again. Same old sh!t happened; no luck. As usual, a nice message of rejection with a lot of similes from her. Since then, once bitten, twice shy. I almost gave up on her and flat out moved on. However, there was a dramatic U-turn last night, which make me so bemused now. This was what happened last night:I was on date with a girl ( I will post this story in next post, behold yourself ). After the date, I was too knackered to take in any club going activities. I went back home to sleep. Suddenly at midnight I got a message from my mate telling me that he saw that podium dancer in the club I met her and asked me to go over. I totally ignored my mate because I was too tired to drag myself out of my bed. I turned my phone off and went back to sleep. The night after in morning, my mate txted me again that I missed a big chance last night because that podium dancer kept asking him a couple of times if I would come over. My mates also said that her face got so pissed every time when she bumped into him without seeing me. Then I double confirmed my mate if she deliberately asked him to txt me to come over. My mate's answer was affirmative.

    This is ridiculous. It absolutely makes no sense at all. If she likes me, why she doesn't turn up the date I ask her. I don't know what I should do. If you were me, how you would game. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Baffling by ambiguous signals, need help -Story 1

    Wadup there, so you say she's a podium dancer? At a club, or is that a fancy word for stripper? Either way sounds like she's a hired gun (hot for business), and she's being a tease, that's what they typically do. Sounds more rough than my bartender 'pick-up glitch', and that's kinda what it is, a glitch. They might give you their number or be friends on fb, but you don't know if they're actually interested, or they might just be using you to advertise themselves, make u a 'regular', it's common and not considered wrong to hired guns, dancers, waitresses etc.

    You shoulda let it hang and went back out that night, but it's cool you didn't too- hey your a busy guy right. So ya I'd stop asking her on dates, and go back to that club soon with a group of friends, just to mob it up and have fun. You oughta do that to once more to show that your outgoing and fun- with social proof- instead of that guy on his couch texting her and dreaming about taking her to dinner then getting it on- definitely takes more skill, so don't look for acceptance prove it. Maybe read up on a little of that 'strip-club game' first, don't be needy, then ask her when she gets off work, and tell her she seems cool enough to join you and your 'awesome' friends for an after party or something- get a little edgy with it. Besides she's not a librarian right.

    Hope that works, if she's cool you can go on dates later, for now keep it light and social bro- good luck

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    Default Re: Baffling by ambiguous signals, need help -Story 1

    Thanks for your reply infrared. May be she is a stripper but I don't really know. All I know from her is that she has been quite a few podium dance or catwalk audition. Also One thing I can clarify she is not a Hired Gun or has any work related in the club. The club I met her is a normal club where people are going there for fun and dance. I am not that level yet to hook strippers up. It's hard for me as a beginner of the game. However, I will still take your advice to read strip-club game.

    This is the last question. Is it not cool to ask her to go that club again next Thursday?

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    Default Re: Baffling by ambiguous signals, need help -Story 1

    Right on man. Ya I'd ask her to go if that's your plan, and keepin it social. Have a plan in store for the bounce too, for another venue, cafe or whatever, see what you can muster if u get in some attraction and comfort buildin time. If she has fun with you and your gang you should be in!


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