I have three stories to share. I will make them short and straight to the point where my questions are.
Before I start, there is something I want to clarify. I am not being selfish not to share what I have learnt from this forum. The reason is if I posted everything in details, it would make this thread too long to read. In brief, these are my routines- cocky funny negs, the cube game, mistery's methods and the simple way to keep up a wonderful conversation which has been posted in this forum a while ago. THEY WORK LIKE A CHARM!! Of course, I still have a lot things to learn from this forum. it's only a start. Here is the story.
a.) I met a podium dancer one and half months ago. After the night we met in a club, we were friends on facebook. I did ask her out once before I went on holiday for a month. Unfortunately she refused me with a nice message, full of similies. In that month when I was on holiday, I rarely talked to her on facebook. Once I was back in town, I started talking to her again on facebook and gave myself another go to ask her out again. Same old sh!t happened; no luck. As usual, a nice message of rejection with a lot of similes from her. Since then, once bitten, twice shy. I almost gave up on her and flat out moved on. However, there was a dramatic U-turn last night, which make me so bemused now. This was what happened last night:I was on date with a girl ( I will post this story in next post, behold yourself ). After the date, I was too knackered to take in any club going activities. I went back home to sleep. Suddenly at midnight I got a message from my mate telling me that he saw that podium dancer in the club I met her and asked me to go over. I totally ignored my mate because I was too tired to drag myself out of my bed. I turned my phone off and went back to sleep. The night after in morning, my mate txted me again that I missed a big chance last night because that podium dancer kept asking him a couple of times if I would come over. My mates also said that her face got so pissed every time when she bumped into him without seeing me. Then I double confirmed my mate if she deliberately asked him to txt me to come over. My mate's answer was affirmative.
This is ridiculous. It absolutely makes no sense at all. If she likes me, why she doesn't turn up the date I ask her. I don't know what I should do. If you were me, how you would game. Thanks!