I know it's dangerous territory, trying to pull the hired guns, but oh well somebody's got to do it
So a few weeks ago I met this bartender at a local spot i kinda frequent. Note that my game had been in a slump the past few weeks so I was a little off guard, but I was there with a group of dudes and girls so i had plenty of social proof. There came this really hot brunette bartender, with green eyes followed by some junk in the trunk, and she kept looking and winking, like honestly winking right at me! (I just thought of it now I shoulda teased her on it somehow, but i was a little froze.)
I chatted with her a bit, joked around not much but she seemed impressed, and asked me my name- IOI. Me and my group all bounced, i think even after last call.. and I freakin jumped the gun. Skipped the catnip, role play, imagery, etc. and went straight for the number, like my life depended on it- so asking for it on my way out gave her an easy option to say 'come back and see me again' something sincere but flaked with the fake.
Although, she didn't mention a boyfriend or deliberately say no haha. Went back into the bar last night, she was there, and I played it off cool, like that never happened, like it didn't matter to me at all. Again with a group of girls and my homie- social proof. She was still makin lots of random eye contact (winkless) with me but I only talked to her once, to get some shots argh- like a customer would. I was gonna mention to her this chat i had with a bartender chick earlier that day, and how we were goofin around about crap to tell the lame patrons sometime, and it was full of threads from the movie "d1ck Tracy", but missed it, she was too busy and it was super loud (excuse). i'm still going to use that but it doesn't matter this is a hired gun i'm messing with now, and i could use some game plan reminders for the 'heist.'
even though i have plenty of new prospects lately (slump is back off), she's definitely up in the ranks.
any tips on how to hook up with the bartender chick now? It's hard to phase from nite life into reg hangin out w/a girl like this u know. By the way, me and my homie are decent friends with her co-worker dude.