Im average looking, maybe a little above average. Iam 173 cm tall. I have a good education, sociable and considered by most " a cool guy", probably a little "psychotic".
There's this chick that added me on fb like 1 year ago. I used to ignore or mock here at the beginning. Not because I was playing , just because I didn't like her type although she was hot. Like 6-7 months ago we started to have conversations and I started to talk to her not ignoring her. I kinda started to like her but she didn't know anything. The thing is, I don't know how to tell if a girl likes you at all. I was playing the cards pretty good. She also knew I wasn't interesting in being friends with her since the beginning. She knew from the beginning I was looking for something more. The reason why I didn't ask to meet was because I study in another country while she lives back to the country im from.
Like 3 months ago we started to talk everyday together for at least 3 hours a day. We got really close. When we were kinda joking , when I used to talk to her about the boyfriend-girlfriend conversation she always had a postitive reaction but one day , like 2 months ago when I decided to talk seriously she told me we were just friends . So I cut the bullsh1t out. I stopped talking to her. She'd always come back and talk first telling me stuff, sending me different kinds of messages , sometimes nice one , sometimes : Hi , I have a boyfriend XD.
We had a lot of fights this summer. Anyways I got back to my country and we were supposed to meet.
Everytime she told me she had a boyfriend I ignored that fact. Everytime we used to fight with messages and she somehow came back and talked first.
Always. As soon as she talked back I started to talk about getting in a relationship and that was the start of another fight so she could come back to talk first after 4 days. I didnt meet her the 1st time I went to her city. We had a fight sending messages. Once she told me she wanted to meet, then she didnt, then she did want to meet but her boyfriend didnt let her.
Once she told me she didnt want a relationship because Im too cocky and i behave like a d1ck , another time coz of the distance , and another time coz she didnt like me, another time the three of the reasons at the same time. Anyways she'd always come back to talk. I met her the 2nd time I went to ehr city. The good thing about this is that i didn't get disappointed.
She was exactly the way we had talked on facebook and of course my self confudence was the same.
The bad thing about the meeting was that day i was with a friend and I had told him if she comes alone you have tto go , and that farker didnt go. -.- So the frist time i met her , there was three of us. Anyways i didnt go into a serious conversation boyfriend girlfriend but she did some "good thinks", she firstly put her arm around my neck. She had asked me to bring some necklace from italy to her and i of course didnt bring it . So she told my friend : do you buy gifts to your girlfirned.
Why , i told her , are you my girlfirned ? Then she was saying the bla bla bla , that doesnt have to do with anything and bla bla bla. Anyways everytime we talked we got into a fight. One night like one week, I put thing straightened out. I told her I cant be friends with ehr anymore and if she wants anything more she can send me any message.
She told me she doesnt want a relationship with me just for the moment because she is angry with me and bla bla bla. The very next day she tells me wnats me to talk to her , so i bring up the same conversation again. We get into a fight again. Then, she sends me a message : i miss you, can we be friend again ?.
I tell her all the stuff she needs to know . That we cant be firends , that she should contact me only when she's single. She gets really mad and i decide to write a longer message. I write her this message :
Look , even I wanna be with you like we used to be but,because im not homosecual and I have a d1ck , that gets erected time after time and because i have testosterone when i talk to a chick comes a moment that i decide whether or not i like her sexualy.
If i like her secually i ytell er. If she likes me too we get in a relatiobnship and kiss and stuff. If she doesnt like me i dont talk to her too often. Im explaining to you because your're a kid. truth be told , im thinking that you like me too and i dont really get why arent we in a relationship at this moment ? At first I thought our problem was the distance, then i told you i can come back at october wiouthout my parents knowing anythign just for you.
I told you id buy another phone , another sim card to talk just to you Then I thought you had insecurities and I told you all i could to cover the your insecurities.
Then I really though you dont like me for real and I gave up. Now you're acting like you like me again. Im starting to think you are just trying to fark around with me and I dont like that very much. You must put an end to this. Even because I have so much to tell you. Then we got into fight again and i told her to stop bothering me.
Then i get drunk and we start to talk again. I get in a fight with some guy from her profile and i ask him for his phone number. She says to me to call her instead of that dumbfark. I call her. We laugh a lot as far as i remember. She also becomes jealous because i am talking to her by the phone of some friend of mine.
The next day I dont talk to her. Today she writes me : if i only talk to her when im drunk and i answered yes. We get into a fight again and she gets really mad becayse she calls me a bitch and i tell her : shes the bitch here , not me.
Then i left things calm down for a little bit, like 1-2 weeks. I started to talk to her again and in the begining she was a bit cold because i had told her not to talk to me as long as she was single. Then I calmed down the situation and I told her we can talk like we used to in the time when we both were in relationships. I told her I had a girlfriend now and we could talk because neither one of us was single.She said she's okay with it but i didnt replay.
In a week or so , her boyfriend will move to Germany which makes means that he'll be further away than I am. I have to plan my next move and start talking to her. Should I start as soon as her boyfriend moves from her country. Should I be friendly or should I just start it flirty. She was flirty with me even when she was in a relationship.
Anyone who can help me and can tell me what do i have to do ?