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    Question Difficulty with day 2's!

    I tend to meet girls when out at bars, in that whole drunk/bar/club scene.

    Usually not a problem to get a number or two, and, at least in my most recent example, kiss closing.

    However, now that I have this girl's number, whose into me, what do I do?

    I met her on a Friday, and the next day she wasn't going out, while I was. No Big Deal. Yet now I am at a loss. Do I wait until next weekend and bring her back into that environment?

    Or should I bring her on a "date"? Not sure what kind of day 2's are even appropriate for this. Am I over-analyzing, and just get lunch with her or something?

    To me it seems so boring to get food or go to a movie. But getting drunk all the time is low class and repetitive.

    I hope I have been clear and concise, and I am more than happy to provide a more specific example, or more details if you need.

    Thanks in advance for your help!

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    xnonamex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Difficulty with day 2's!

    Is bumping frowned upon in this forum? I waited a whole day...

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    Default Re: Difficulty with day 2's!

    Quote Originally Posted by xnonamex View Post

    However, now that I have this girl's number, whose into me, what do I do?

    I met her on a Friday, and the next day she wasn't going out, while I was. No Big Deal. Yet now I am at a loss. Do I wait until next weekend and bring her back into that environment?

    Or should I bring her on a "date"? Not sure what kind of day 2's are even appropriate for this. Am I over-analyzing, and just get lunch with her or something?

    To me it seems so boring to get food or go to a movie. But getting drunk all the time is low class and repetitive.
    Do you know for sure shes free on weekends? just make sure since some people have very erratic schedules.

    I never think about it this way, at most I always say "hang out." and i try not to think beyond it so i dont get ahead of myself if thats the case.

    And day 2's depend on the girl. i try to steer as much as possible toward the "hmmm what should we do?? i mean theres so much we havent done yet!" it usually stems from a "omg you did that? i wish i could!" or "you know? ive NEVER actually did _____" to which she may reply with "omg i ALWAYS wanted to do that too!"

    hope you can get what i mean.

    it keeps it simple, and it guises my advances, however if you are too reserved you will gutter yourself into a FZ

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    Default Re: Difficulty with day 2's!

    text her with something witty like " Im luring girls back to my house with candy which do you prefer M&M's or Skittles?" It clearly gets ur intentions across that you dont want to end up in friend zone and its too funny to be taken as sleazy. then for a date find something fun and active to do. Something that most guys would never think off. Start to create a list of great date spots that you find when your out. They're all around you and we tend to forget so a list helps. GOOD LUCK BRO

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    Default Re: Difficulty with day 2's!

    Thanks for the advice guys...

    Looks like I need to stop being such a wimp and just text these girls, lol!

    I guess the real difficulty I have is extracting a girl from the bar scene, and bringing her into the light haha, but I guess i'll just ignore it.

    Any unique date ideas?


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