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    Exclamation loud venue strategy guide

    ok puas, we all know sarging in a super loud venue (where you can barely hear yourself even) is super frustrating for those who tend to rely more on routines and words than body language...

    my question then, is what are the best tactics (from approach to close) for this setting?

    I have seen in similar threads strong advocation of a silent open using nothing but body language, directly to your target, ignoring the group, followed by rather quick isolation outside where "normal" pickup can occur.

    however, those who suggest it make it sound SO easy, to the point where girls are isolating THEM... How?!

    should I start out dancing alone/near wing then look for iois then approach?

    or should the dancefloor be avoided?

    ANY/ALL input is appreciated... Even if you're not an expert, please post something that works for you, preferably FIELD TESTED!

    after we have compiled and tested some strategies I will edit this post with an actual guide!

    thanks

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    Here's my take on this.

    - First of all, you're going to a club and that involves dancing. Learn how to dance. It has the added bonus of a HB already being attracted to you.

    - Second of all, it's all about the attitude you convey. A mental preparation before going out helps a lot. Doing affirmations also works great, it pumps you up big time.

    - Next, make sure that you are there just to have fun. You are not there for pick up. Be in the moment. get loose and relaxed, bob your head to the music then gradually increase the amount of movements until you're "there".

    - When you approach, have ZERO expectations of closing. Even better, approach the very first HB that comes in your way that night.

    - You should be smiling when you make eye contact, even if it's just passing by a HB. It creates a good and consistent aura of good vibes around you.

    - When you start to dance your ass off ( so to speak, it doesn't necessarily mean trying too hard ), approach. By now, if you dance good, there should be at least 2-3 HB in your proximity, waiting to be grinded. Go for it. They'll somehow form a circle around you and you "end up" in the middle of it. From this, you can choose the girl that is eyeballing you the most/you like from the group you are dancing with.

    This is the gist of it. I'll elaborate on this later.
    Last edited by Sitfab; 09-22-2011 at 03:39 PM.

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    thanks for the reply sitfab, but should I be doing all of this alone?

    how do you go about dancing with HBs by smiling and dancing near them? I feel like they can sense I'm going to approach...

    whenever you get a chance, id love to hear more!

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    Well, my wing doesn't know how to dance, so I'm pretty much solo on this one ).

    Most of the time I run into a chick friend that dances or I take my wing's girl on the dance floor and use her as a pivot. 2-3 minutes later, sh1t hits the fan. It's impossible not to have 2-3 HB's in my close proximity, facing me or encircling me. When this happens, I'll take a good look at the HB's and see who's eyeballing me and then grind with them, if they're to my liking, or even be approached by those or other HB's.

    When that happens -> isolation -> running standard game -> BAM ( aka k-close or #close ).

    Here's the thing : they WANT to be approached.

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    ok, its becoming clearer to me now.

    you're not dancing solo per se, but rather using female wings/pivots to DHV through preselection on the dance floor.

    is it even possible to use the tips you suggested without female help?
    I'm concerned about my perceived status if I went out by myself, eyeballing girls dancing alone...

    lets keep the suggestions coming guys, this is good stuff!

    thanks

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    Dancing alone is way harder to attract girls. I've managed it once or twice when my friends were too lame to dance, but it takes solid confidence to move around without friends around (because everyone else on the dancefloor will be with their friends). Also, I have less success when I'm with a group of 4 guys compared to when there's like 3 guys and 3 girls in our group. A group of all guys can be intimidating to girls and they may wonder if there's some weird reason we do not have any friends that are girls. But sitfab nailed the most important points, just display good confident energy on the dance floor and don't be prowling..the girls will gravitate towards you if your energy is good.

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    Default Re: loud venue strategy guide

    Dancing alone can be the best thing you ever did or the worst.

    This is a sort of field report from late January 2011

    I was on a trip to Egypt then and one night the Hotel organized some sort of contest for the hotel guests. After this contest was held, they turned on the music on the rooftop, near the pool ( yeah, they had a pool on the rooftop of the hotel ).

    Music was good but nobody was dancing. It was really farking cold and I had a huge fever, but I was getting really bored, really fast. I had like one T-shirt on, one blouse on and one sports jacket on and felt like I was freezing my ass off. The atmosphere was really dying and people were starting to leave the poolside. Since the boredom was slowly crawling in, it was like 11 p.m. and everybody's leaving? Like WTF? Lady Gaga was playing and to hell with it, I'm getting colder and more bored, so challenge accepted. I was alone on the dance floor.... as in ALOOONE alone. Empty dance floor. Just me.

    fark it.

    I bust my ass there like there was literally no tomorrow, doing the most "luscious" chick dance moves, and basically doing things Plastic Man would normally do, if he could dance. During the first song ( there were like 2 Lady Gaga songs back-to-back, Alejandro was first and then Telephone ). A few people from the crowd in front of the dance floor started clapping their hands, but they were somewhat lighthearted, so I started clapping my hands to support them ). After I did that, the entire crowd and hotel personnel present there started clapping their hands very lively. Then I resumed my dancing and started undressing ( not because I wanted to necessarily pretend-strip, it was because I was getting very hot and sweaty ). I don't really remember what came after those songs because I got very tired and went to my table with my friends.

    5 minutes later, a HB8 comes at my table and asked me something ( I couldn't understand sh1t because she spoke in Russian ). I told her I didn't understand what she said and then her guy friend comes along out of nowhere and he said that she invited me over at their table ( +20 persons, one HB 8, 5 HB9.5's, two HB10, a few Warpigs and 6-7 guys, all saying "You're the Man" and sh1t like that ).

    We talked and talked and drank some more ( one of the guys was my translator, because the majority didn't know jack-sh1t English, even if their lives depended on it...Russians ). One point in the conversation, one HB9.5 switched places with the HB8 ( who complimented ME, saying that I'm a very beautiful man ) under the pretext of "sharpening her English skills" ( well, let's say that she got a foreign tongue, alright ). She wanted me to teach her how to dance, so I did. She complimented me about my rhythm and asked if I dance for a living ( for the record, I only know a few moves, but my energy compensates for the lack of other moves ). I said no, I'm an insurance agent by day and a drummer by night. 2 minutes later, we went back to her room. I'll leave the rest up to you to figure out what happened

    The end. Never ran one single ounce of game...at least consciously.

    The next day, guys left and right were high-fiving me like crazy and 2 MILFs were eyeballing me as subtle as a Russian Tank.
    Last edited by Sitfab; 09-23-2011 at 08:33 PM.


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