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    Grasshopper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Are women interested in flings?

    I always feel like if I ask a girl out, its implied that there is some long-term potential down the road, and that if she knew that I had no interest in the possibility of a long term relationship, she would be offended.

    However, I'm in a place in my life where I'm not interested in that, and I just want to fool around, live in the moment, and learn about the opposite sex. The last part is matters because I'm not sure what qualities are important to me in a wife/long-term girl.

    Also, I imagine the type of women who are open to flings frequent nightlife, and 1) I'm not into it, 2) I don't drink and 3) as a condition of my probation, I can't go into bars/clubs. If it wasn't for probation, I'd be willing to adjust.

    Still, ideally I'd want to be myself. While I'm social, I feel disingenuous hanging out in a loud place where I can't converse and I feel out of place since everyone is drinking.

    Also, I live in Houston, TX. So, firstly, in Houston (a little more conservative than the west and east coast) roughly what percentage of women would you say are interested in a fling? secondly, how do I distinguish those who are and those who aren't? thirdly, how do I make it clear to a woman I'm just getting to know that i'm not looking for anything serious?

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    Grasshopper is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Are women interested in flings?

    I want to have a fling. How can I go about meeting women who are open to flings? I imagine I use standard techniques to meet women, but how do I determine if they are open to flings? Where do I go from there?

    Any advice or direction is appreciated.


    P.S. I don't drink, and I can't go into bars/clubs because of probation.

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    Default Re: Are women interested in flings?

    Man that really limits your ability to meet girls that would be up for that sort of thing. However, when you are hanging out with a girl I would just be strait forward and tell her.
    " I am in date mode right now, so I am going to be seeing other girls as well." They will usually be cool with it and if not obviously she is not open to a fling.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

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