So i met this girl about a year ago through another friend when she brought her to my bday party. Initially she and my best friend had a bit of thing going on but nothing ever happened. Since then we have hung out a few times and I got stuck in friend zone. Now i have tried to re-establish myself as a real contender...LOL...I think ive done enough to get out of friend zone and into possible candidate. Below is some of our text convos. I tried setting a date for this week but she flaked on me. I would appreciate ur thoughts and advice on what to do next to get past friend zone, if im still in it, and escalate this relationship. thanks.
Her: Aww thats sweet love . Lets hang out soon. How's wed?
Me: Wed works for me. How about a movie?
Her: Hi Love, dont hate me but i cant make it
Me: No worries because tonight aliens are coming to take all the sexy people off the planet and force them to breed. You should be safe, I just wanted to text u goodbye.
Her: AHAHAHAHAHA love it. we might see each other after all
Me: Ill be quite busy as i was selected alpha male breeder but ill put in a good word for you.
Her: Ahahahaha ur the best
me: I hope ur smiling today... if not, think of me.
Her: Hahah ur texts make me smile
Me: BTW frenchie flakes if we don't start hanging out soon im going to start cheating on you.
Her: Im sorry boo hahahaha u arent the cheating type
So here i tried something new by texting her a pic of me in a new outfit i was thinking of getting to get her opinion
Me: Need a womans opinion yes or no on the yellow hoody?
Her: Yes very cute
me: Thnx babe couldnt decide if i loved it or not
Her: Hot date?
Me: *looking around* Are u sending ur midget ninjas to spy on me? You know i like it when you do.
Her: Ur crazy lol. Whose the lucky girl
Me: I know where this is going. Your gonna send ur ninjas to kidnap her. If u want to hangout just ask. No need for violence. ;-)