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    bigmig is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Do you think this girl from a year ago is into me?

    So i met this girl about a year ago through another friend when she brought her to my bday party. Initially she and my best friend had a bit of thing going on but nothing ever happened. Since then we have hung out a few times and I got stuck in friend zone. Now i have tried to re-establish myself as a real contender...LOL...I think ive done enough to get out of friend zone and into possible candidate. Below is some of our text convos. I tried setting a date for this week but she flaked on me. I would appreciate ur thoughts and advice on what to do next to get past friend zone, if im still in it, and escalate this relationship. thanks.

    Her: Aww thats sweet love . Lets hang out soon. How's wed?

    Me: Wed works for me. How about a movie?

    Her:What Movie?

    Me: Drive?

    Her: Hi Love, dont hate me but i cant make it

    Me: No worries because tonight aliens are coming to take all the sexy people off the planet and force them to breed. You should be safe, I just wanted to text u goodbye.

    Her: AHAHAHAHAHA love it. we might see each other after all

    Me: Ill be quite busy as i was selected alpha male breeder but ill put in a good word for you.

    Her: Ahahahaha ur the best

    me: I hope ur smiling today... if not, think of me.

    Her: Hahah ur texts make me smile

    Me: BTW frenchie flakes if we don't start hanging out soon im going to start cheating on you.

    Her: Im sorry boo hahahaha u arent the cheating type

    So here i tried something new by texting her a pic of me in a new outfit i was thinking of getting to get her opinion

    Me: Need a womans opinion yes or no on the yellow hoody?

    Her: Yes very cute

    me: Thnx babe couldnt decide if i loved it or not

    Her: Hot date?

    Me: *looking around* Are u sending ur midget ninjas to spy on me? You know i like it when you do.

    Her: Ur crazy lol. Whose the lucky girl

    Me: I know where this is going. Your gonna send ur ninjas to kidnap her. If u want to hangout just ask. No need for violence. ;-)

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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    everything about this saids friends only and there's a reason why?

    you are firing pickup lines at her, she's "smiling" not because she's turned on.. she's more "entertained" smiling. And her suggesting you going on a date with "someone" else when you were gaming her, is a sign saying .. "you're not a bad guy... just not for me.. good efforts though"

    here's what I'd do for the next situation when you get in this again, have a more personal touch to it, be slightly more opened to things and be more specific if you want answers/date/something from her, because the entire time, you seemed to have beat aorund the bush and as a result, she found it vague and reacted to it as a friend...

    but good news is, you always learn, and it IS a good start. hope that helps a little.

    If you still want this girl, you can STILL fix it, start by saying... "okay, to resolve violence, I've decided to take you out on a date and you can see my outfit in real life. Tuesday night? it's dress to impress night " and see her response... and don't tell her what you want to do with her (obviously not the sex) .. but like if your taking her to dinner or movie or golfing or a park.. don't tell her.. just surprise her.. make it more spontaneous.

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    bigmig is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    thnx so much!!! I'm actually tryign a ton of things out right now with girls i've known for awhile so if i fail its no big deal b/c I have nothing to lose, right? I agree with your point about being more direct I have an issue with that and I need to be more aware of it. I will work on that next time thanks again.

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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    SM52 has a excellent point.

    She is into the ego boosts and banter, but there is no attraction. This girl probably thinks to herself 'he is so funny, he is so sweet'. This is terrific if you want to be friends (there is nothing wrong with that), but it does little if you're trying to get physical with her. I recommend moving on to someone who has not pegged you in the 'friend zone' and focus on building attraction. Digging yourself out of the 'friend zone' is not worth the hassle. I would spend my energy on someone new. My 2 cents, good luck bro.

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    bigmig is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she into me?

    Guys thnx for the adivce I agree with you both. Sometimes u just need an outside perspective to smack some sense into you. HAHA

    In other news, I used a more direct approach with another girl i met a couple weeks back and she just agreed to go out later this week. Thanks guys.


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