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    easyrider is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 1.5 months into relationship - no sex.

    Argh.
    This is starting to piss me off.
    As the title says: Its been 1.5 months into the relationship and we have yet to do anything! We've decided to be exclusive, got her a birthday gift last week, and I've even gone out for dinners with her family.

    Every time I try to escalate, I usually get the hand pull up, or she says she just wants to take it slow and insists its not me. I have spent the night at her house maybe 3-4x and nothing. Just some making out and that's it. I tried LMR and it went no where...she went to bed. I ended up just leaving in the middle of night and drove home (I did however tell her I was leaving, but I think she was half asleep). Sucks because she is the one who asks me to spend the night.

    Anyways, now she sends me a text message and is upset that I left last night. Saying shes is one of those people that likes having someone to sleep with not always sexually.

    What can I do ?
    While I do like her, I find it hard to stay interested

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    Default Re: 1.5 months into relationship - no sex.

    You're in but NOT in...ouch...have you tried the old fashioned "get her drunk?"

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    Default Re: 1.5 months into relationship - no sex.

    She invited me last night for drinks with her and her work friends.
    Then invited me over, then asked me to spend the night...

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    Default Re: 1.5 months into relationship - no sex.

    Next time you get resistance to the point of physically stopping you, have an honest to God sit down talk with her. Hint: you don't have to wait until she stops you; you can bring it up. Women love when their man wants to talk to them. Tell her what you expect and why you expect it. Tell her you have needs that are not being met and you would like them filled with her, but will go to another woman if she isn't willing to perform. Explain you are happy being exlcusive with her, but would rather be single and come over to cuddle a few nights a week than be in a relationship where you aren't completely satisfied. Ask her why she is resistant. Ask her what she has done in the past, what she's willing to do for you and why. Listen. Do not respond disfavorably no matter what she says.
    (You haven't given us enough information to really help you beyond this. Perhaps, you can will us in on what you know of her past, your past, your ages, how you met...)

    The truth of the matter is: a relationship means both of you have to give in to some things to make it work.

    If you talk to her and she offers something, stop her. Tell her you want the first time to be super special. Tell her you want her to enjoy it, but be very open minded. Cuddle and start planning the most romantic evening and sexual fireworks you've ever devised.

    Until you give more information, I can't offer much more to you, personally.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: 1.5 months into relationship - no sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by georgiaonmymind View Post
    You're in but NOT in...ouch...have you tried the old fashioned "get her drunk?"
    You're a douche. "Get her drunk" is what losers who have no skill with women do. "Jakc off a lot" would have been a better suggestion under "get drunk with her".

    She will probably use alcohol to get herself past the last bit of "no" she is feeling. (If she is a drinker) However, that option should be made available to her, not pushed on her.

    The OP is already in an exclusive relationship. The game has completely changed from the frat house party strategy. You are obviously not up to that level in life.
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