I have an on-going problem that is starting to get annoying. On a night out, I am reasonably good/confident at approaching and holding a conversation with a girl, but I‘m absolutely awful at kiss closing. Put simply, my ratio of “girls spoken to” to “kiss closes” is terrible. An extreme example of this was the other night, where I must have spoken to and conversed with - during the course of the whole night - at least 8 different girls but come away with ZERO kiss closes. This includes talking to the classier kind of girls in a nice bar and the less classy (easier lol) girls in a late night club.
When it really hit home the other night with how bad I was, was when I was in this late night club (not the nicest of places lol) at 4 in the morning. At this time everyone is pretty much wasted and the girl’s don’t have their bitch shields up. I was speaking to this girl (who said she had a bf) but she was very close to me, was allowing me to hold her while we were talking and was even letting me feel her ass. However, I just couldn’t think of anything to say or do to kiss close. I gave her a quick kiss on the lips when she gave me a compliment but that was it. Eventually the conversation died down and she went off with her friends.
I feel embarrassed with myself that I didn’t kiss close this girl. To make matters worse, I saw this same girl making out with another guy later on in the night. This just shows she was clearly up for it and how shocking my performance was.
I am aware of Mystery’s kiss close method (would you like to kiss me etc) but there are some occasions (like my last example) when talking to a girl where it just doesn’t seem appropriate or like it would work. Obviously I would follow a different approach when in a more sophisticated kind of bar/club and Mystery’s kiss close method does seem more applicable to those scenarios.
What should I have done/said in order to kiss close (and hopefully more) that girl in the late night club?
Additionally, any help/routines regarding kiss closing in a club/bar in general would also be greatly appreciated.