Alright, hi everyone! This is my first post, but I've known about the site for a while now, and I just knew you guys could help me out/give me some advise. I'm gonna try to help you help me by being descriptive, so bear with me here haha.
Ok, so, I met this girl by being co workers (neither of us work there anymore). We text quite often and chat online a few times a week too. We're both busy with school, so I actually think that's a lot. Since we both quit around the same time, we haven't really hung out much. Our school schedules conflict, and she parties on the weekends (I don't). I've been working to build up the tension, but it really started probably two months ago when I decided to grow a pair and just go for it haha. This convo is over text:
Me: "you can totally see my **** in these pants haha"
Her: "you gotta big ***?"
me: "that's for me to know, and you to find out"
Her: "How big is it? lol"
Me: " I dunno. I've never really measured, but a picture's worth a thousand words "
I sent her that during the day, and later that night, I eventually did send her a picture. She said she was shocked by the size lol. I asked her to send me one, but she wouldn't, so I didn't pressure it. We continue this sexual flirting for a while. She tells me how she's watching a movie (The Babysitter) and how it's making her want to fool around. She invites me over to watch it the next night, but says her mom and brother are home. I go over anyway, not expecting sex. At this point, she's seen my ....., but we keep the convo mostly pg-13 since her family's in. I go home, and we talk about the movie. She says she would be my babysitter (in the movie, girls bang these guys for cash under the disguise of babysitting)
Now, fastforward. I've sent her shots two more times (I get her talking about myself to the point where she asks me for the pictures) and she's sent me back one. It was a picture of her abs (haha?). I said "send me another!" but she said no, so I just continued on with the conversation. She said I "should be a model" and that she liked it, which was to the last pic I sent. I must've been taking a while to take the picture, and she said something like "If I was there, I would have it up and ready in seconds." I told her she was cocky, but then said that "its always like that when youre around" Her response was "Well imagine I'm there and let that thing out to play" (I take this as her being comfortable with me being turned on by her? She certainly had to imagine herself being there, doing the playing lol)
Sometime this month, though, she'll have the house to herself and is planning a get together. I may go, I may not. I'm not sure yet. I've left out some stuff, but you get the basics of it. Is she just being goofy about it all, or am I overthinking it too much? Any comments/criticism are welcomed. If she does want to be FWB, what would be a good way to transition into that?
Thanks for reading, TJ.