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    Macca21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I have absolutely no confidence when it comes to women

    Hey im 21 and when it comes to chatting up women I always get really nervous and find it hard to open with women. Sometimes its easy because women come up to me and I can chat to them easy enough. Its just my approach and opening I cant seem to be confident enough when Im at this stage. Any advice?

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    Default Re: I have absolutely no confidence when it comes to women

    Try opening women by just asking a random question, or chit-chatting. Without any other goals but just 'to talk'.

    I recommend chit-chatting (make a comment, for example), because you'll have more chance of creating a longer conversation.

    Just relax. Any normal looking woman (so not gangsta-chicks for example) will answer and talk to you. And if the conversation dries out, so be it. Hell, they might even start re-initiating it later. It has happened to me.

    Remember: no goals = no failure. When you get used to talking to random women, start making compliments. And go from there on in.

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    Default Re: I have absolutely no confidence when it comes to women

    also ironically, The road to success is paved with failures.

    given that, what i would do to help me not feel so out of place, is to pretend im a tourist or foreigner at least not from the CITY or STATE/TERRITORY. id ask them for directions, and then kinda act as though im getting carried away so that the target or targets friends and i start to talk about stuff. however you want to keep them entertained or interested, its forcing their path in the conversation however you have to keep this in mind.

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    Default Re: I have absolutely no confidence when it comes to women

    Dont judge me but when I started pua when it came to openers I acted like I was talking to myself out loud and right when I finished my opener I took a glance at my target so she kinda knew I was talking to her.it works about 60 percent of the time,and when a girl responds you get a major confidence boost.Another thing I used to do is say "hello" to random women after eye contact was establish
    "Give her the gift of missing you" david d

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    Default Re: I have absolutely no confidence when it comes to women

    Appreciate the advice guys. I will try to take it all on board and see how I get on.


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