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    Default 23 yr old new and old to this

    Heres my story. I'm 23 years old I just got out of the Army and now I go to college with all hot chicks and I just don't know how to just walk up to them and strike up a conversation. Even at bars etc I been drawing blanks. Sober or drunk i still can't think of anything. I'm gonna start using openers from this site here.

    I ran home last night drunk from the bar because of my failure to open with women. I actually just quit drinking for awhile (good few months or so) so I can figure this all out. I dress nice, have a nice car, Always cleaned shaven etc and in shape and I have my own place. I sometimes get nervous talking to at least HB8 but don't have a problem with ugly or regular girls.I don't want to waste the prime of @ss around me just because I can't get them. Any advice would be great.

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    Default Re: 23 yr old new and old to this

    Truth be told, alot of these people on here won't give you the time of day it seems like.

    Practice talking to people in general, don't just try and start conversations with HB's, chat up dudes, old people, friends whatever. And eventually you'll just find yourself talking to an HB the same way you would anyone else. The only hard part is figuring out how to escalate the situation and get her back to your place.

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    Default Re: 23 yr old new and old to this

    hYdra. Have you read any material from mpua's? The Mystery Method talks about how to open sets and there is also some canned openers in the "StyleLife challenge".

    I think slick is giving you good advice as far as opening everyone is concerned. When I go out, I work to talk to everyone in the room. That way I am opened up conversationally and it doesn't look like I am being tryhard when I go and talk to an HB. It looks like I am just chatting with her like I am with everyone else.

    I suggest talking to them about the same things that you would talk to anyone about. Don't try to force something to come out, just going up and saying anything is going to start building your confidence. The best place to learn is in the field.

    Also, to both you and Slick. If you ever need to bounce an opinion off someone, let me know. I don't see all the posts because I am not on here ALL the time, but I am on pretty regularly. So if you really need a question answered send me a private message. Like if you need opener ideas, or want an opinion on a field report. Also, if you post a thread and I don't comment on it, feel free to send me a link and request that I post on it to give it some action. When I first started on here, I felt the same way that slick does, so I like to be able to give advice where I can.
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    Default Re: 23 yr old new and old to this

    Hey thanks for your time and yes I have read some books regarding mystery method, the game etc. I guess I will have to put it in to practice tomorrow. Ill report in the field reports when I have something good.


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