Argh! I've dated this woman for a couple of months over the summer, and we were hot and heavy there. She is a HB8, and has several boyfriends already. One of my best friends R** and her were together for a good 5 years or so. They broke up 3 years ago. She took it upon herself to frack all of his friends, including me. I hooked up with her in July. Then, a tragedy of sorts happens to her and she calls off sleeping with me or any of her other guys for good. That lasted for about 2 weeks until I end up in her bed on Labor Day weekend. I hear from the other guys that she cut them off as well, so she isn't BSing when she says she is done playing the field. I try to text and call, but get no response from her afterward for about 3 weeks. I put it upon myself to freeze her out and removed her contact info from my phone. I get a phone call from her about a month ago, its late, and she wants me to come over. I say no, I am 45 miles away and have to be at work at 7 AM. I see her the next night at R**'s birthday party, and thank her for the booty call. Still, I freeze her out, but am friendly to her in person. I make no outward advances. So a couple of weeks pass, and she texts me that R** is in the newspaper, a head chef at a local new restaurant. I text back, but get no replies. I keep the freeze out going. I break down after another 2 weeks and text her "Hey A***, how's it going? Are you still my friend? Friends hang out and say 'How you doin'" She replies back and we text back and forth over the weekend. I invite her to see me again at my house-mate's band gig at a pub on a Tuesday night. My house mate T*** has farked her in the past, he was one of the guys she gets with every so often. I didn't tell T*** that I had interest in her, nor did I get much of a chance to really talk to her as one of her ex-BF's show up and kind of got all the attention from her. I just lay back and smiled and acted like I didn't really care. She tells us a story about her new love interest, another young man, but T*** and I don't care. I feel she still wants to get with me, we make good eye contact, definite IOI's and invite her back to our house for a nightcap. Well, I have to be at work at 7 am, so we have a couple of glasses of wine, and T*** and I relay our stories of having sex with A*** and she seems to be enjoying the attention. I hug and kiss her goodnight, leaving her with T***.
She keeps mentioning that she has to leave and go home, but she doesn't have to work the next day, nor does T***. Well, I get up in an hour or so to go to the bathroom, A***'s shoes and purse are still in the living room, and T*** slams his bedroom door shut. They are in there farking away. I am pissed, angry, jealous, and sad she would choose my A-hole roommate over me. Am I just being a chump? I texted her in the middle of the night 'I am such a fool...' then later with 'A*** I love you for who you are. I had hoped to reconnect with you again, I miss being close with you. I'm sad you slept w T*** last nite. I didn't sleep any.' I didn't I was up and furious. She replies back with 'Sorry last night upset you. I didnt plan that or anything, it just happened." I know it was her choice to make, whether to fark him or not. I talked with T*** after she left a little, I said it was cool, he didn't know I liked her. I text her back with 'I'm not angry with you, I wasn't clear about what I want.' no reply for two hours. I text again, 'I mean do you even want to talk with me? Did I hurt you by saying what I said?' Sh!t, I really like this girl, but she seems to be avoiding me all afternoon. I have other women I date, but I really would like to tame this one and make her mine.