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    Default Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    Argh! I've dated this woman for a couple of months over the summer, and we were hot and heavy there. She is a HB8, and has several boyfriends already. One of my best friends R** and her were together for a good 5 years or so. They broke up 3 years ago. She took it upon herself to frack all of his friends, including me. I hooked up with her in July. Then, a tragedy of sorts happens to her and she calls off sleeping with me or any of her other guys for good. That lasted for about 2 weeks until I end up in her bed on Labor Day weekend. I hear from the other guys that she cut them off as well, so she isn't BSing when she says she is done playing the field. I try to text and call, but get no response from her afterward for about 3 weeks. I put it upon myself to freeze her out and removed her contact info from my phone. I get a phone call from her about a month ago, its late, and she wants me to come over. I say no, I am 45 miles away and have to be at work at 7 AM. I see her the next night at R**'s birthday party, and thank her for the booty call. Still, I freeze her out, but am friendly to her in person. I make no outward advances. So a couple of weeks pass, and she texts me that R** is in the newspaper, a head chef at a local new restaurant. I text back, but get no replies. I keep the freeze out going. I break down after another 2 weeks and text her "Hey A***, how's it going? Are you still my friend? Friends hang out and say 'How you doin'" She replies back and we text back and forth over the weekend. I invite her to see me again at my house-mate's band gig at a pub on a Tuesday night. My house mate T*** has farked her in the past, he was one of the guys she gets with every so often. I didn't tell T*** that I had interest in her, nor did I get much of a chance to really talk to her as one of her ex-BF's show up and kind of got all the attention from her. I just lay back and smiled and acted like I didn't really care. She tells us a story about her new love interest, another young man, but T*** and I don't care. I feel she still wants to get with me, we make good eye contact, definite IOI's and invite her back to our house for a nightcap. Well, I have to be at work at 7 am, so we have a couple of glasses of wine, and T*** and I relay our stories of having sex with A*** and she seems to be enjoying the attention. I hug and kiss her goodnight, leaving her with T***.
    She keeps mentioning that she has to leave and go home, but she doesn't have to work the next day, nor does T***. Well, I get up in an hour or so to go to the bathroom, A***'s shoes and purse are still in the living room, and T*** slams his bedroom door shut. They are in there farking away. I am pissed, angry, jealous, and sad she would choose my A-hole roommate over me. Am I just being a chump? I texted her in the middle of the night 'I am such a fool...' then later with 'A*** I love you for who you are. I had hoped to reconnect with you again, I miss being close with you. I'm sad you slept w T*** last nite. I didn't sleep any.' I didn't I was up and furious. She replies back with 'Sorry last night upset you. I didnt plan that or anything, it just happened." I know it was her choice to make, whether to fark him or not. I talked with T*** after she left a little, I said it was cool, he didn't know I liked her. I text her back with 'I'm not angry with you, I wasn't clear about what I want.' no reply for two hours. I text again, 'I mean do you even want to talk with me? Did I hurt you by saying what I said?' Sh!t, I really like this girl, but she seems to be avoiding me all afternoon. I have other women I date, but I really would like to tame this one and make her mine.

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    Default Re: Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    Bro it seems like you screwed up telling her your feelings, you definitly came on a bit strong all out the blue and put her in an awekward position.

    Also it seems like she isnt looking for a solid relationship/did not get the vibe that you were interested in one with her. Perhaps your Freeze Out worked too well.

    I think theres a lot of damage control to be done, date other girls in the meantime and keep in contact with her, but idk the extent to how much damage control ur going to be able to do... Perhaps some1 else has more advice, GL bro
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    Default Re: Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    Wow you fucked up my friend. If I was you ... I'd freeze her out for the next 2 years dude cause I'm like 99.99% sure she ain't giving you any more booty calls.

    I'm not being harsh, just bein' frank.

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    Default Re: Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    I will add my agreement with Slick's comment. I suggest you just move on bro. Not to mention this girl is obviously a little on the loose side, not to be rude. It's cool she isn't a prude and is probably a cool girl, but I definitely do not think she is girlfriend material. I think you probably did yourself a favor on accident. If you dated her would you want to wake up in the middle of the night to her banging your roommate again? That is what I would see happening.
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    Default Re: Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    Thanks for all the good feedback guys. I talked with A*** yesterday afternoon at her place, and I gave her the 'Lets just be friends' speech before she could do it to me. She doesn't like to hear 'no' from any man, so I think I got her curiosity up and going pretty good. I'll see her socially in our group of friends, but ITT's advise that she isn't GF material is true. She is a good one-nighter, but only on her terms it seems. So, what's a guy to do? My other GF Ro** came over and made it all better!!! Oh, and while I was at A***'s, I brushed off one gal I met on POF in front of A*** on the phone! (a Woman with crazy husbands chasing them and sh!t!) Enough drama for one day... I'm going sarging tonight, get a number a day!

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    Default Re: Frustrated with FWB, Friend farks her instead of me!

    Good deal X. Glad to see you aren't going to get hung up. Going out to sarge is definitely a good way to forget any girl because you see there are plenty more.
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