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    Default Still Married but Seperated

    Me and my wife officially seperated about a month ago and have not told any friends/family. We broke up before and it got messy with family/friends. We act as we are still together around family. Yes, it is weird/dishonest.
    Financially, we have to live together and rely on each other for probably another year until we can officially put the house on the market.
    I was gaming a woman recently and i mentioned "my wife" and I totally got a different vibe from her. How should I bring up the fact that I am seperated because I really do not want to lie to woman I pick up. I mean they can see on FB that i am married.
    Also, our agreement is that we are allowed to see other people but cannot bring them home.

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    Default Re: Still Married but Seperated

    Honesty is clutch, but If you tell them before you have a girl hooked she's gonna just say its not worth the drama

    I would suggest not saying it right when you meet them first, ask them to hang out, have a fun date like with a friend
    Somewhere into the date bring it up. Say you're separated and in the process of getting a divorce, you can even tell them you wanna take things slow
    Don't dwell on the conversation too much, keep it short, you don't wanna seem like youve got baggage, if they want details tell them you'd rather talk about it when you get to know them better

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    Default Re: Still Married but Seperated

    Thanks for the advice Red Baron. I think you are on the money with them believing it would be too much baggage.


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