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    Default Need Help with Knowing Whether To Follow Up

    Good afternoon Guys,

    Last weekend, I was at a bachelor party in New Orleans. On Saturday night, we bought drinks for a bunch of girls who happened to be attending a bachelorette party. I basically ignored, teased, and flirted with one girl that I really liked out of the group. When she walked away for a minute, her friend told me she was jealous when I was flirting with other girls, so I was basically in. I asked her to dance and we were grinding and making out on the dance floor for about an hour or so.

    When we were done dancing, she said she wanted to see the river, so we walked towards the Mississippi. We got lost along the way, so I suggested getting a hotel room so we could make out more. She told me at this point that she was not the type of chick who goes all the way immediately. All of the rooms were booked up anyway, so we snuck into a nearby hotel and madeout by the pool for another hour or so before getting kicked out. On the walk home, she was aggressively sexual, throwing me up against walls along the way back before making out and telling me how hot the experience (and I) was.

    I walked her back to her hotel where she told me she was tired. She had other roomates, and so did I, so I left it at that, gave her a really passionate kiss and said "goodbye". She said "goodbye sweetie" and I left and didn't look back.

    Since I got back home since this experience, I can't stop thinking about it. I'm not sure if I'm depressed or what, but maybe I should have asked for her contact information or followed up with her. I never gave her my last name (since I'm in an on-and-off relationship and didn't want any drama), so it's doubtful she'd be able to contact me.

    Since I know her last name, I googled her and found her on online sites, like facebook, etc. Is it creepy to follow up, and if so, what would you say? Or should I just leave it as a drunken bachelor party experience and move on? Either way, I don't know why I am having feelings over this that I just can't shake. I've always been the type of guy to hook up and move on. Any comments on how to just let something that got hot and heavy then vanished go?

    I appreciate any help anyone can give. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Knowing Whether To Follow Up

    After all that you're certainly clear to follow up with a facebook message

    Exactly what to say tho.... Tease her bout something and tell her you should grab a drink, end it with something like "if you think you can keep your hands off me,"
    Trying to pin the sexual aggression on her will be important with a girl like this, frame control

    And just in response to your note about hooking up and leaving, there is something I between relationships and one night stands, doesn't have to be one or the other
    I tell girls I like them but I'm in date mode and dating other people too, tell them early and surprisingly every girl is cool with it,
    You can hang out with girls you dig without committing to somethin

    Hope it helps sorry I'm blanking on specifically what I would write on Facebook, just keep it short and fun


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