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    benhamean is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Convincing myself she's not out of my league.

    Hey this would be my first post, so quick intro! Stumbled upon Adam Lyons, started reading The Game, got super excited, started P90x over the summer, currently reading and trying to start "Rules of the Game" program. Lovin it. But naturally I'm a tall 18 year old smart dude who has a bad track record of dating. I don't consider myself far from being good at picking up women, i just have to find a place to start.


    ANYWAY. College, cute as a button girl, HB8 at least (am i saying that right? :P), sociology class. We've had small talk here and there, sitting next to her every once and a while. Long story short, I had to txt her once because of a club announcement, so I have her number already. So far I've convinced myself it could work as long as I secure a date.

    TODAY. Woke up and said "I'm gonna invite for a dinner this weekend". As class was ending, someone forgot to turn in some assignment, HB8 snuck out quickly, & my chances of asking her were blown. That is usually the only time i see her ever during the week, so i thought my weekend plan failed. I went to my next class and kind of got in a depressed mood...THEN.

    As I was walking out of the cafeteria bathroom, there she was! I was like "well, this must be a sign from god!" I stood there and kind of thought what I should do, then turned around and followed her up the stairs. I saw she was talking to a friend so I acted like I was going to class, and walked past her and down the hallway.

    She begins to follow me and now I was stuck in the worst pickle possible! My anxiety and adrenaline are pumping as I quickly realize I need to get the hell out. I try not to turn around, she speeds up and says "hey benhamean!" (that's not my real name btw). I say smiling "oh hey HB8"...HB8, "Sorry I kind of snuck up on you there"...me, "Yea, I thought I felt someone behind me"...HB8 "Ya I thought I'd just take the initiative and say hi *lol*"... and this is where the conversation died off, I said something about stalking me (trying to subconscious nag?, IDK), laughed it off, and I walked down the other staircase.

    Obviously I didn't blow it completely, but I still didn't accomplish my goal. Problem was I hesitated and wasn't prepared for conversation when I needed to be. Now it's far from over, but I need good openers, or something!, to establish good private conversations with this girl.

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    Default Re: Convincing myself she's not out of my league.

    If I were you I think it would be o.k. to text this girl. You are on a first name basis, and she made a point to say "Hi" which is a good sign. She also knows you already have her number.

    Why not just say some people are going to be hanging out and invite her to come chill? Then feel out the situation once you guys are hanging out? You are in college, ask her to go with you to a party or something.
    There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.

    Be the flame, not the moth.

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    Default Re: Convincing myself she's not out of my league.

    Yea tropics is right.

    Sounds like you're on the right path on the game. Good work giving her crap about stalking you, definitly the right move. Keep it up where you can.

    Keep your next approach casual, find something to give her grief about (like the stalking but preferably a new thread so you can come back to the other one later when you say goodbye - like "ok promise you're not gonna stalk me meanwhile?"), then invite her out to a popular event around campus. Event or activity, even studying, not dinner

    Giving a girl some lighthearted grief is a perfect opener for people you know, ask her if she had cheating tips for an upcoming test, or better - give her crap about her outfit like she just got out of bed

    Keep the conversation light, don't second guess yourself if your confident she'll like you


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