Re: Need help picking up a waitress
Since it was slow, I would have opened her with something like. " Hey. Did you scare all the people away?" Then like Pierrot stated, she again has to answer your question and you also hit here with a little neg.
She would know you are kidding, but from that point you need to have some stuff to talk about. The Cube game is a good one. MY personal favorite thing to say to a Bartender or waitress is
"Hey I went out a couple nights ago and the server was flirting with me. I assumed she was working for a bigger tip. But then I paid with my credit card and she friended me on facebook today. She took my name off of my Credit card. Is that creepy or what? By the way, I better not get a creepy friend request from you on facebook."
With the above statement you show preselection, and you disqualify the girl by saying you better not get a friend request from her.
After that you can see where it goes, and maybe work to get some other routines you can use to start practicing with different girls.
Oh, also. Don't ever tell a girl you are "bothering" her. It subconsciously causes her to think that also and it is a DLV. It shows you are looking for her approval, when what to be doing is DHV and causing her to seek your approval.
With the opener about scaring people away, you are already showing that she needs to start working for your approval.
There is no such thing as rejection, only feedback.
Be the flame, not the moth.