I'm new to this forum,just made my account, so first of all Hello.As I have read some posts I must say I'm excited like a little kid on Christmas about finding more info about pick-up,women and seduction .
OK,let's get to the point.
I'm a student, in my 3rd year, in june before summer vacation I began to talk through messages on facebook with a girl who is in my class in university.In the first 2 years we spoke to little,so we were totally strangers. We began to speak on fb,I wrote her something teasing her about a grade,she wrote back and it all began. I must say that we talked like this for more than a month. I nnever tried to hit on her on fb,or use "juicy" pick up lines.I tried to be funny,serious, confident and show her that I'm a person with who you can talk everything,of course I teased her,and she liked it. I was not pushy,I did not send her messages first, although we talked most everyday.In most cases she wrote me in the morning,saying she wishes me a wonderful day at work, and asked how I was doing..she sended me her best thoughts and things like that.
I found out that she liked talking about horoscope, she is a leo ,i'm a sagittarius,so we used to send each other lines in wich we described the other, (i was sending her lines about the leo womens character,and vice-versa).
I enjoyed talking to her and she with me,she said she never meet a sagittarius,and she enjoyed talking to me, and that I was a man who knows what he wants from life.
Suddenly it all stopped,she blocked me on fb, did not wrote back nothing. I asked her best friend if she could give me her number, (this was like 2 weeks after she blocked me), although I could get it from a friend of mine,but I wanted to see if she want's that her friend should give me the number.Her friend didn't reply, so I never tried anymore to write her or call her.On her birthday I sended her a Birthday card on email (this was after a month after we stopped talking).
For a month university began,we were to lectures,and I saw her,after the first week I took her number from a friend of mine and wrote her a message in wich I asked her what happend,why she stopped talking to me.She said that she stopped because she felt that things were going in the wrong direction (did she meant that she felt that i was hitting on her,..or that I never actually did it),, i never asked more, i wrote her back that she had a dirty mind,teasing...after a few days i wrote her that i was in an uncomfortable position because I did not know how to behave,because what was in the summer was interesting for me and i'm sure it was for her too,we could talk about anything and never got bored of each other and now she acts all cold and stuff,and I said to her that whatever her chouce will be ( is she choses to talk to me or not) I will respect her decision..she did not answer.....
after that we did some small talk in the class and that was all about the talking, and what I don't get it is : if she acts like she does not want to have anything with me,she acts cold, why does she look at me all the time,?
I'm coming in the room she stares at me? if we sit in the same row she glances at me,when i look at her she looks elsewhere,? i don't look at her much,actuallly I'm ignoring her.Yesterday we were in class and my roommate talked to her and her friend, I ignored her. My roommate said that whenever she is near she looks at me discreetly.
What kind of behavior is this?
what does it mean?
does she want something from me?
am I taking this to serious ?
what should I do?
how should I react?
I forgot to say that she has a boyfriend
(she's much to smart for him) and she's a definitely 9, and her biggest fear is being alone(she told me).I did not expect her to cheat on her boyfriend,she just isn't like that.But I wanted to see how far I could get.
This girl with her behavior makes me go nuts, but I ain't showing it.This motivates me to restart my learning in the pick up field.
Please tell me your argumented opinion.
P.S. sorry for my english,i did my best and google too :P