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    Default She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Hy guys
    I'm new to this forum,just made my account, so first of all Hello.As I have read some posts I must say I'm excited like a little kid on Christmas about finding more info about pick-up,women and seduction .
    OK,let's get to the point.
    I'm a student, in my 3rd year, in june before summer vacation I began to talk through messages on facebook with a girl who is in my class in university.In the first 2 years we spoke to little,so we were totally strangers. We began to speak on fb,I wrote her something teasing her about a grade,she wrote back and it all began. I must say that we talked like this for more than a month. I nnever tried to hit on her on fb,or use "juicy" pick up lines.I tried to be funny,serious, confident and show her that I'm a person with who you can talk everything,of course I teased her,and she liked it. I was not pushy,I did not send her messages first, although we talked most everyday.In most cases she wrote me in the morning,saying she wishes me a wonderful day at work, and asked how I was doing..she sended me her best thoughts and things like that.
    I found out that she liked talking about horoscope, she is a leo ,i'm a sagittarius,so we used to send each other lines in wich we described the other, (i was sending her lines about the leo womens character,and vice-versa).
    I enjoyed talking to her and she with me,she said she never meet a sagittarius,and she enjoyed talking to me, and that I was a man who knows what he wants from life.
    Suddenly it all stopped,she blocked me on fb, did not wrote back nothing. I asked her best friend if she could give me her number, (this was like 2 weeks after she blocked me), although I could get it from a friend of mine,but I wanted to see if she want's that her friend should give me the number.Her friend didn't reply, so I never tried anymore to write her or call her.On her birthday I sended her a Birthday card on email (this was after a month after we stopped talking).
    For a month university began,we were to lectures,and I saw her,after the first week I took her number from a friend of mine and wrote her a message in wich I asked her what happend,why she stopped talking to me.She said that she stopped because she felt that things were going in the wrong direction (did she meant that she felt that i was hitting on her,..or that I never actually did it),, i never asked more, i wrote her back that she had a dirty mind,teasing...after a few days i wrote her that i was in an uncomfortable position because I did not know how to behave,because what was in the summer was interesting for me and i'm sure it was for her too,we could talk about anything and never got bored of each other and now she acts all cold and stuff,and I said to her that whatever her chouce will be ( is she choses to talk to me or not) I will respect her decision..she did not answer.....
    after that we did some small talk in the class and that was all about the talking, and what I don't get it is : if she acts like she does not want to have anything with me,she acts cold, why does she look at me all the time,?
    I'm coming in the room she stares at me? if we sit in the same row she glances at me,when i look at her she looks elsewhere,? i don't look at her much,actuallly I'm ignoring her.Yesterday we were in class and my roommate talked to her and her friend, I ignored her. My roommate said that whenever she is near she looks at me discreetly.
    What kind of behavior is this?
    what does it mean?
    does she want something from me?
    am I taking this to serious ?
    what should I do?
    how should I react?

    I forgot to say that she has a boyfriend
    (she's much to smart for him) and she's a definitely 9, and her biggest fear is being alone(she told me).I did not expect her to cheat on her boyfriend,she just isn't like that.But I wanted to see how far I could get.
    This girl with her behavior makes me go nuts, but I ain't showing it.This motivates me to restart my learning in the pick up field.
    Please tell me your argumented opinion.

    P.S. sorry for my english,i did my best and google too :P

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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    She's told you "no" in every way possible. Take any of the many hints that she is not only very not interested, but really wants nothing to do with you.

    You are way past salvaging this.

    Stop.

    Try with another woman. Read the threads and posts on the board, try some things suggested, and go out and have some fun.

    Stop bothering this woman. You are freaking her the F out.
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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Dude,

    She can't help but look at you because she thinks you are a creeper. I mean, how many times did you message this girl an try to contact her without response. That is not good.

    You definitely need to pretend like she never existed and move on.If you don't it is going to cause even more damage to your reputation which has probably already suffered from this.

    You messaged her friend for her number.... what are you thinking man. That had to burn even more bridges for you. You know ANY girl they know that is remotely interested in you is going to hear about that right?

    I am not trying to put you down man, I am telling you that you have GOT to stop behavior like that.

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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    First of all guys ,thanks for the opinions.
    @Tropics, I tried to contact her twice,once asking her number,and second at college when I texted her and she replied I was not satisfied with the answer and hadn't done anything.
    What I find mindf*cking is this, I ignore her,I don't talk with her,don't look at her,only sometimes when she stares and I can "feel" it,if she doesn't want anything from me,why doesn't she ignore me too ? Why sometimes when she comes in my sight she smiles,but not an arrogant smile. Today I in a class we had to build something and I was helping a friend,she came and talked to me. wtf is this?can girls use this game of hot & cold or I'm exaggerating with the hypothesises?
    I most say I'm not very socially with my classmates as 90% of them are kind of dumb ( don't get me wrong,I'm no Einstein genius ),execept talking about drinking,party's and D&G clothes you can't get much out of them, so I may not show my alpha traits.
    @nik , man what bothers me the most is,why does she behave like this? she was the one who wrote me,she wanted to speak with me,she began to send those citations with the horoscope,why did she changed her behavior like this?
    Does she try to test me?
    Or I should just move the f*ck on..?

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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Quote Originally Posted by ekerhart View Post
    First of all guys ,thanks for the opinions.
    @Tropics, I tried to contact her twice,once asking her number,and second at college when I texted her and she replied I was not satisfied with the answer and hadn't done anything.
    What I find mindf*cking is this, I ignore her,I don't talk with her,don't look at her,only sometimes when she stares and I can "feel" it,if she doesn't want anything from me,why doesn't she ignore me too ? Why sometimes when she comes in my sight she smiles,but not an arrogant smile. Today I in a class we had to build something and I was helping a friend,she came and talked to me. wtf is this?can girls use this game of hot & cold or I'm exaggerating with the hypothesises?
    I most say I'm not very socially with my classmates as 90% of them are kind of dumb ( don't get me wrong,I'm no Einstein genius ),execept talking about drinking,party's and D&G clothes you can't get much out of them, so I may not show my alpha traits.
    @nik , man what bothers me the most is,why does she behave like this? she was the one who wrote me,she wanted to speak with me,she began to send those citations with the horoscope,why did she changed her behavior like this?
    Does she try to test me?
    Or I should just move the f*ck on..?

    I think you should just move on dude. She blocked you on Facebook and isn't responding to you when you try to contact her.... Just leave it alone.
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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Thanks man ,
    I'll just do that,
    I want to restart my pua education,what do you recommend ,with what should I start first ?
    hey you ain't gettin' away this easy
    cheers

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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Quote Originally Posted by ekerhart View Post
    Thanks man ,
    I'll just do that,
    I want to restart my pua education,what do you recommend ,with what should I start first ?
    hey you ain't gettin' away this easy
    cheers
    What material have you read? I think it is important to start reading techniques in order to build your own. I would recommend reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss (Style) , The Mystery Method: How to get beautiful women in bed." by Mystery and then start doing the stylelife challenge which is another book written by Neil Strauss. I am currently reading "The Pickup Artist" by Mystery which is a little more advance material.

    You also NEED to get out in the field and start practicing. Take small steps like it suggests in The Stylelife challenge and you will be able to see how to pick up girls step by step. The Mystery Method also breaks it down in a really solid fashion.

    I am not trying to get away. LOL I will answer any questions you have man.
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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    I have read "The Game" a few years agoo,but only for the pleasure of lecture.I'll read it again for the info.
    I'm familiar with some books from Carlos Xuma - Alpha Man,Seduction Black Book. A friend of mine has Magic Bullets (is it any good?)
    Also I have read some books about body language.
    I will begin by reading "The Game" as you said.
    Thank you man , from this day forth You shall be my Mentor :P ..if you accept and if you don't well...than I'll have to stalk you virtually, `cause persistence is a b*tch.
    Thanks for the advices,much appreciated

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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Quote Originally Posted by ekerhart View Post
    @nik , man what bothers me the most is,why does she behave like this? she was the one who wrote me,she wanted to speak with me,she began to send those citations with the horoscope,why did she changed her behavior like this?
    Does she try to test me?
    Or I should just move the f*ck on..?
    Initially, she gave you a chance. Possibly, even liked you. Now, she doesn't like you, you probably creep her out. She may smile out of fear; hoping it appeases you enough to stop. She's not a mean person and it's hard for her to do what needs to be done.

    Yes, move on. Learn from the mistakes you made.

    Doesn't matter where you start as long as you do start. I don't know you beyond a few internet posts. Just start reading. Try what is recommended. Use what works for you.
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    Default Re: She says she doesn't but she wants it - HEELPP me, Tell me your opinion

    Quote Originally Posted by ekerhart View Post
    Thank you man , from this day forth You shall be my Mentor :P ..if you accept and if you don't well...than I'll have to stalk you virtually, `cause persistence is a b*tch.
    This is creepy and you freak me out. I know you're tring to be funny. It's not. Women, especially, will not find this humorous. Keep thought like this to yourself (or your therapist) and don't act on them. No, the smileys don't negate the creepy.
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