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    Machine17 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Why would she cut me off?

    I was sort of seeing this girl for 6 months we worked together and got on really well only had a few dates but were together at work and were like brother and sister having a great time. Then she told me that she didn't want to be with me because she wasn't over her ex.

    We argued a little but the more we continued talking and flirting the more it seemed like we had a chance but then she turned around to everyone at work and told them she had a boyfriend and I was harrasing her but she never told me she had a boyfriend she just said she wasn't over her ex but she did this get with the new guy and let me down gently. She hated the fact the colleauges thought we were an item so she badmouthed them to me and made me look like some stalker when she was txting me before work all the time. People got between us and gossiped alot, badmouthed me mostly and this caused most of our problems. She never sided with me though, some weird thing about her was she cared more what others thought and because they didn't like me she felt awkward being my friend/gf.

    I ended up getting fired from work because everyone was ignoring me/being hostile and she was aswell so it led to me making a mistake. She was a nice, sweet funny girl who would always txt me but realised that me and her were not going to work because we were colleagues and I kind of didn't agree with this because she used to get emotional around me and I could see she had feelings that were mutual and felt it was sad throw it away.

    She spoke to me last week when I got fired and I called her up at the end of the week knowing I wasn't going to see her at work no more. She never used to meet me outside of work because she thought it would complicate things but I asked if she would like to meet sometime and she said yea and mentioned she would contact me sunday if she was free. She always made plans then never followed through so I didn't say much to this.

    I got emotional in my voice knowing it was going to be hard for us and we both said bye and I said to her have a good day and she said "take care it was good talking to you" which sounded so final and I got upset because she was going to work withoout me. Now when I try to contact her the phone is off, this is never happened before. I believe she switched phone numbers, why? she felt guilty or she doesn't care about me?

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    Default Re: Why would she cut me off?

    Doesn't mean she don't care about you, but your response and your emotions show her it would be difficult when you guys talk.
    You gave her a choice to bite the bullet or ignore it, she chose to ignore it.

    Now for the real advice - I know you don't want to hear it but you have serious one-itis. All of us on this forum have been where you are before and had our hearts broken

    Trust me when I say there are lots of other girls out there and as soon as you force yourself to go meet them you'll realize you were a fool to get hung up on her to begin with

    If you're new to the game read "the game" by Neil Strauss, he meets many ppl in the same boat and can give you a much better understanding of how these things work
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Machine17 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Why would she cut me off?

    I know what your saying I just hate that she isn't apart of my life. I would still like to speak with her but it doesn't seem like it's going to happen especially from her side.


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